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my story

  • 25-08-2008 8:51pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    im from europe came here with my company temporarily for 6 months, while here i met a new girl in my work who seemed great, i was her manager so i just kept it at a lot of flirting. english isnt my first language but i never had a problem to talk with this girl, the first time we were alone we were walking the same direction from work and we stopped and have a two hour conversation.amazing for me. she left for a different work premises and we met up discussing some things of work causing problems.she was going with her friends out that night and i stayed to and kissed her at the end of night-so we started dating and quickly i fell really in love with her.my ex girlfriend came to visit, one who had broken with because she was selfish career obsesses an i could never see myself marry with her or have children.i told my girlfriend that i had a friend coming and she was kind about it didnt pressure me to introduce her and gave me space.while my ex was here she slept in my bed and we had sex sometimes.

    my ex started calling a lot and when my girlfriend was with me i told her it was my family,as we didnt speak in english she didnt guess.i asked her to move in with me and she came for a while but still kept her own place,mine was paid for by work.we agreed to talk of moving in when my work apartment expired.i decided when the 6 months was up to stay longer for her.a while later she became pregnant and things were to different.she was very sick and tired all the time and didnt take to much attention to her appearance.i had bad relation with my father and i wanted a baby and marriage with her i was scared.she said its normal to be scared and she was to.i asked her for baby marriage and life and she agreed.my ex was sending me photos of us previous relation in bed,somehow i came back to my ex also,she was in france.when our work found out we were to have baby they fired my girlfriend as she was still in probation period.when she said she would make complaint they said i was still her manager and if there was complaint they would make complaint of sex harrasment in work against me.we talk and she decide not to make complaint as she was sick and my career is importat to me to much to lose.

    she became sick with smells of things and ask me to clean fridge as some smell making her ill,i never did and she stopped to cook for me because she say smell make her sick.she is always sick and went for some time in hospital.i start to work everyday of 8am-10pm.when contract came for end of apartment i choose one for me without to tell her.she only said is no room for a cot.she started cooking again in new place.she took some things over when she was staying and i was annoyed why shes bringing things in my home.i tell her that shes annoying me i dont want her things or her sick here.when she is going to bed before me i stay on couch.shes not understanding whats happening or my feelings and keeps to stay and cook for me.she clean my clothes and i didnt like the way shes cleaning them.her relative got very sick and my new girlfriend the ex heard her voice in background so i told her my girlfreind stays because her relative is dead and im to look after her.

    then i leave my phone at home one day.we only had one set of key for apartment and my girlfriend had them.the housephone rang and she answered.she said because she thougt its me to see if she is there to let me in.its my other girlfriend on phone and they have a conversation.when i arrive home my girl is not there and i sleep in the hallway.im very very mad about this.is my apratment and she leave me in hallway.my girlfriend comes home next day and tells me her relative died that day and starts crying.i told her i want her to leave my apartment and to go from my life.i dont want her or baby.she doesnt understand and is behaving stupid.shes asking why and how im doing this.i told her that i have my other girlfriend now and shes what i want.since shes pregnant i dont like her behaviour but she thinks im behaving bad.i told her i dont want baby if she has baby its her choice and not mine so its her responsibility.she can take abortion.she is catholic and very upset and shes about 6 motnhs pregnant.when she left i change my mobile no and didnt tal;k to her again.she tried to contact me many times and i ignore.she find me one day in my work by phone to tell me baby is born since two days.

    i told her i dont want nothing and hang up.she sends me letter for money for baby and to tell me im a dad she wants the relation of me and baby. i met with her once and enjoying to see her.i met baby shes nice and i tell to all i love her and im repsonsible to baby.i dont like the name she took for baby and angry of this.we had sex one day and then i change my mobile no.few months later my mother want to come to see baby so i call her and tell her i love baby and found my way back.she met mother with baby and my mother was very happy and enjoyed them.my ex-new girlfriend was sending my baby mum letters of anger and aggresionfrom her pregnancy to now.my baby mum send to my mother and ask to stop, im really angry of this.afterwards i change my mobile no and i decide to go back in frnace.i sent email to baby mum and try to phone her home as she had changed her number.never talked to her only her mum who was distant to me.i told i want to see baby before i leave and will call the next day,i was busy and called 2 weeks later and baby mum wa still not in.i emailed and she reply a week after to say she think i behave bad but she wont stop relation between baby and i.i answer to this 2 days later im going back in france today and i ring.her mother tell to me she back in an hour and i said id call,i never did. what should i do now


Comments

  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    You should grow the **** up and stop acting like a self absorbed, selfish, evil, heartless twat.

    Other than that i think it's best for your baby if you leave and never come back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭LolaLuv


    What country are you from, so I know to steer clear of men from there? Ah, France. Yip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    You are a pathetic swine. You sicken me.

    You dumped your pregnant girlfriend because she was hormonal and had morning sickness. That's disgusting.

    And you don't like the baby's name. Oh my god. GROW UP! I really hope you get what you deserve. Stop being such an immature selfish jack ass.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 361 ✭✭the glass woman


    I can't believe i wasted 3 whole minutes of my life reading that self absorbed nonsense. 3 minutes I'll never get back. Oh and +1 to what magicmarker and especially Lil kitten (whose post made me laugh out loud!) said btw.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 559 ✭✭✭ZygOte


    i cant believe this is a real thread, is this person real? :eek:

    op: vous êtes dégoûtants


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  • I'd love to think this was a wind up but it really reminds me of nearly every French man I've ever met! Thanks for reminding me to steer clear in future!


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    You have a responsibility to be a father to your child.
    Grow up and behave like a man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 559 ✭✭✭ZygOte


    can we get a French person, or even someone with better french than my own in here to give this guy an earfull ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 180 ✭✭raemie21


    Vous êtes une excuse pathétique pour un homme.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    its my story,is my life.my baby mum should come to me to ask for something and she should work for it if its her want not me.she chose baby and she doesnt give me anything.my current girlfriend she became pregnant,when she write my baby mum my baby mum told me she said she will get pregnant on purpose to make sure i never go back to baby and baby mum.i dont believe baby mum and she says is written in those mails my mother have,i dont even ask because i know is lies.she want me back and lie to push me from my girlfriend.i am a man,im a really strong man and this girl was to stupid for me.she behave as princess always asking for somethings.one day she asked m for bagel from cafe i didnt bring and she crys.shes a baby she shouldnt have baby.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    its my story,is my life.my baby mum should come to me to ask for something and she should work for it if its her want not me.she chose baby and she doesnt give me anything.my current girlfriend she became pregnant,when she write my baby mum my baby mum told me she said she will get pregnant on purpose to make sure i never go back to baby and baby mum.i dont believe baby mum and she says is written in those mails my mother have,i dont even ask because i know is lies.she want me back and lie to push me from my girlfriend.i am a man,im a really strong man and this girl was to stupid for me.she behave as princess always asking for somethings.one day she asked m for bagel from cafe i didnt bring and she crys.shes a baby she shouldnt have baby.

    You shouldn't have baby. You are not a man, you are barely even human.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,226 ✭✭✭taram


    Regardless of what happened, you did the deed, you have a child to look out for, no matter what your feelings are for the mother.

    To be honest though, if I met either of the women you're entangled with, I'd tell them to learn from their mistake, and to get the hell away from you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,341 ✭✭✭✭Chucky the tree


    tl;dr.


    cliff notes please?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 283 ✭✭dee8839


    Mother of god! I don't even know why I'm bothering to finish reading your post let alone replying!

    If you think she wasn't able to be a mother, you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant.

    If you think you didn't love her enough to stay with her or live with her, you shouldn't have stayed in a relationship and you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant.

    If you think you want your French ex or whatever she is, more than the mother of your child, you shouldn't have stayed with your Irish GF, you shouldn't have cheated and you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant.


    You're not fit to even go near another human being, let alone to father one. You're a selfish, arrogant, clueless, pathetic pr!ck who deserves to be alone.

    Bagels? Baby names? Morning sickness?

    Your survival to adulthood amazes me man, since you were clearly born without a brain....

    EDIT: God almost forgot, you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant, but you did, you have a child, step up, act like a man, stop being such a d*ck and just support your poor child! And pray the kid doesn't take after you in any way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    when i met her she was great girl,realy strong and indepandant,then shes pregnant and shes not cooking anymore and shes sick always even through night so i cant sleep,she went to sleep in the little room sometimes when shes sick to make me feel bad.shes behaving like princess to stop looking good for me and to expet me to bring her things and clean the fridge.once im having soup and she is sick right in front of me!how im supposed to enjoy mylunch like this?i didnt realy want my ex girl like i said to me she could never be the mother of my children but she came back and she wouldnt go away and shes sending me the pictures of her body and us togther and her underwear sso why not.its my story,its my life i can do what i want.my baby mum expected me to give her money for the baby,is desgusting.she have her job she have her own money,she have her family.for me its a real shame she ask me for money. alll the girls just want to trap a man for money.i think shes too stupid to be a mother,she doesnt even answer my mail for a week.and she took a new mobile no how im supposed to contact her when i want.i loved her and i wanted a marrage with her but she to different when shes pregnant shes not thinkin to me anymore.ima strong man when my father left i help my mother with our family.i have huge wisdom and knowledge of whats like to be with baby and it was arealy hard life for me so now i can live my life as i want


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 126 ✭✭copperfacegaz


    ehhh .. let me give you a mans opinion ,,,,, ur a scumbag !!
    ps . keep the mouse in the house !!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    also why didnt my baby mum fight for me,when she found out about french girl she just leave me to sleep in hall then only look for me to talk about baby.when french girl was sending her so many messages and telling her all the things of our sex and telling her to stay from me why didnt my babymum tell her back instead she sent this emails to my mother and ignore my french girl.she should have fought for me if she wanted my love


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    This is guy is pathetic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,248 ✭✭✭4Xcut


    I tried, i tried to type a reply that wouldn't get me banned and still retained my thoughts on this but i can't.

    Simply put, get a vasectomy. If you refuse to take responsibility for your actions, take preventative measures. Hell, at least use a damn condom.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,104 ✭✭✭Swampy


    you are such an asshole.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    Did ANYONE think to report this thread?

    There are so many breaches of charter here i could have a field day infracting and banning.

    You know the charter by now.

    Thread locked


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