Qs on asking out sum1 i knew

LegacyUser

ok, this is a long story (to me) but im gonna condense it to the basics. From the age of 8 until 14/15, I knew a girl, that i reeeeally liked.

I seen her for the first time, while I was out with my then new friends, and i saw her coming up the road... and I was literally in awe of her!! I said to myself "I wish I cud talk to her".. low and behold one of my new friends sez "Hiya" to her, and introduces me... turns out, she was a friend of my new friends.. and we then became friends. I always thought she was beautiful, and we got along very very very well. Actually, better than the rest of our friens.

I seen her looking at me and then quickly glancing away when i saw her loads of times.. you know.. like.. "Oh, he saw me" and her mam once recognised me when we were trick or treating.. of the group of ppl i was with, she just called my name, i was like "How did u know it was me!?" and her mam goes "Ah, I know you of course".. (I later thought, maybe I was talked about alot i that house)

Anyways, I havent seen her for about 3 years now, she lives in my area, but I NEVER see her and my best mate now, I only realised, is like the male version of her to me... I couldnt live without him and im so happy hes there... and I wonder, if id said something to her then , like I wanted to but was too afraid.. could it be as good as id want?

I'm obviously single now, but want a good relationship, where i can feel safe and such with someone.... and I always just took it as, shes gone, I blew my chance, and I should forget it...

But we were too young for a relationship then!!! so i just wanna ask peoples opinion here.. should I maybe ask her out? see what she says? Shes hard to find, but I think I know someone who goes to college w/ her... I know I'd be so happy if it wokred out... and I also know maybe its all in my head, and it'd be a disaster, but I strongly believe it would be great!

So, what would your opinions be?

I should probably also say, every single day of my life, I regret not saying something, and then of course, everyday I think about what could have been..... could ruin any relationship I have with anyone else!

LegacyUser

Im 18 now by d by.

Overheal

Isn't interest enough of a reason to ask her out? Do it ya monkey

karen3212

You have to give it a go. It may go well or it may not be as great as you think, but I think you should find out.

You'll just have to find a way of being in the same place as her so you can ask her out. Don't make it look like you are stalking her though!

RedXIV

As Overheal said, if your interested why wouldn't you pursue it?

Try and get back into her life first without diving headfirst into asking for a date, see if you can find out if she's single or not. If she's in college, tell her your coming up for a night out in her town and see if she wants to meet up. then take it from there

Best of luck mate

Red

P.S. nothing worse than regret, do this now, you'll be happier later, i promise you

LegacyUser

wow, i was afraid people would say it was a bad idea and I should leave it!

Thank you all soooo much for your replies.... youve actually made me extrmely happy and im now verry optimistic about this!!

I'm gonna try get in touch with her.... I hope to god it goes the right way, and I can find her

Thank you all again for the replies!!!

xx