Sexual Worry

LegacyUser

gonig unreg for this a little embarassed...

Was in bed with my OH last night, and woke up early, he always told me that he would love to be woken up by...You know....but anyway he was still asleep on his side so gently spooned him and moved my hand lower and started to gently play away with him and I could feel him rising to the occassion,.....but unlike any other time I might of given him a hand job, he didn't get wet, he stayed totally bone dry.....so just stopped after a while...llso starting to get a bit worried that he is not turned on by me any more .....I asked him about it told him I'm worried but he said there is nothing to worry about, he not sure why it happend, but I'm afraid that he might not want to hurt my feelings......

Is this something to worry about guys??

Thanks

togster

He was asleep. And he should get hard not wet. Thats the bit i'd be worried about tbh.

SpookyDoll

Yeh, whats this wet business?

LadyE

Op might mean pre-cum? Otherwise...

He was asleep...I wouldnt worry about it.

0utpost31

Didn't get wet?!! With what, sweat or something?

Rayven199

Yeah im a little at a loss here...wet?

humanji

Oh thank god, I was beginning to think that men were meant to get wet and I was starting to worry. OP, I think you're going to have to explain what you mean by "wet" before anyone can offer advice.

Wibbs

Men do get wet, in that they release precum as lube when they're aroused. Some more than others and can vary a lot so I gather. It varies with me, that I know.

The erection is the dead giveaway TBH. No probs there OP.

Rayven199

Was starting to worry a little myself there!

LegacyUser

Sorry, I was typing from work, and people started to come in so explaination was a bit brief.

no precum is/was the worry, he got hard, and I was masterbating him for a good while, he had woken up at this point, and normally I wouldn't have to go on so long for a sign of precum, but there was no sign what so ever,

Go-Go-Gadget

Sexual erections are due to physical stimulation, precum is caused by mental stimulation so while a man is asleep unless hes having a dirty dream he wont "get wet".

0utpost31

Yeah but you don't get "wet" from precum.

It's only a dribble to assist the flow of sperm out of your urethra, it's not supposed to act as a KY jelly ya maggots ye! That's not "our" problem, that's why the females get wet!

Have you noticed that after you have precame for a while, maybe like after 15mins of being "at it", when you do come, it's like a geyser/machine gun. That's the precum lubing up the urethra making it easier for sperm to fly through.

Compare that to the pathetic squirt of a 5minute ****.

OK BACK ON TOPIC!

SpookyDoll

Sounds like Go-Go-Gadget has the answer!

.....is it just me or is it gettin hot in here.....?

Curlypinkie

*wipes sweat of brow*
Some pretty graphic posts there...

Anyway, no, he shouldn't get wet. Btw, if he wasn't awake, how is there a possibility he's not turned on by YOU? He's sleeping? Let him wake up and then you'll see!
Try again tonight and don't stop until he wakes up :cool:

Wibbs

0utpost31 wrote: »

Yeah but you don't get "wet" from precum.

Depends on the man and the situation.

It's only a dribble to assist the flow of sperm out of your urethra, it's not supposed to act as a KY jelly ya maggots ye! That's not "our" problem, that's why the females get wet!

Again not correct. Wiki the subject. It's more complex than that, but lube is certainly part of it.

OK BACK ON TOPIC!

Good plan.

Go go gadget as SpookyDoll said has the answer pretty much, so unless others have replies that are not of the heavy breathing variety, this will be locked soon.

nomorebadtown

i'll tell you exactly what the problem was. it was morning and he was semi awake - he probably needed to pee, this would effect him in this manner.

as for the wetness, i tend to get quite wet indeed when aroused, as in damp datches appear on boxers, and this is long before ejaculation.

Pub07

Not turned on? wrote: »

but unlike any other time I might of given him a hand job, he didn't get wet, he stayed totally bone dry.....

wat

dr.bollocko

I think that the issue may be more a need to improve or vary your technique for sexually stimulating your boyfriend and stop worrying so much about him being unattracted to you because he didnt spray a little when you fondled him in the early morning.
Don't worry about it!

LegacyUser

stay cool . the dawn horn can rise and fall quickly . with or without stimulation .
next time rub a little handcream on first . guaranteed soaking !

jackbutler

tbh, "getting wet" for me takes at least a good 20 minutes of *hem hem*.

i wouldnt worry if i was you, some guys pre-cum often, some dont.

and plus, he was asleep! You shouldnt worry about him not being attracted to you anymore cuz he didnt know you were doing it! If it makes you feel better then tell his willy its been a naughty boy, certainly dont deprive him of sex for what he did whilst unconscious.

MagicMarker

Christ almighty!!!!

You start to give him a handjob in his sleep and he didn't get 'wet', and now you think he's not turned on by you anymore????

Are you 15 or something????

Get a grip on yourself ffs.

sinnerboy

MagicMarker wrote: »

Get a grip on yourself

Could be a riposte to ANY thread on this forum . Why are you here ?

MagicMarker

sinnerboy wrote: »

Could be a riposte to ANY thread on this forum . Why are you here ?

wtf is a 'riposte'?

If you have an issue with my post then report it.

sinnerboy

a quick, sharp return in speech or action

and

done

SpookyDoll

Hey OP, just use a touch of lube on him tomorrow, should smooth eveything out....;)

randylonghorn

MagicMarker wrote: »

Get a grip on yourself ffs.

She was getting a grip on him! :pac:

(Sorry!)

Seriously, OP, nothing at all to worry about ... certainly the amount of precum I produce can vary wildly depending on a number of factors: how long since ... tiredness ... level of mental stimulation as someone correctly said ...

In this case I would say the simple answer is "he was asleep".

And I wouldn't let this put you off trying again, certainly I personally love to be woken up in this way, and I would say most men do ...

SpookyDoll

Should this thread be moved to after hours?

Wibbs

No but as the OP's question has likely been answered already, locking it at this point seems a good idea.