advice please.

SnowMonkey

Recenly met this girl.... online.... There is attraction there but theres also, no spark. the girl's gay or decied she is, which is pretty understandable. her eyes wonder around the room at moments more then mine, so this wasnt a shock...
i accept with open arms theres about i can really do about it.So where staying as friends....

but the void that she filled has become empty, i know it sound's unuseual to most people but we did really have a personality click.... the problem is i dont useually get to click with many people im a unexcepted person and most people just think im weird..Im really very insightfull in life, and really deep but i dont show this side of my self all to often..

Now im not fuastrated im just a little. dissapointed.. but i know i cant change things..... so why bother... but this is what im wondering. why do i meet so many amazing women yet get no where whats the lesson ?

why am i feelng sorry for my self?

STUBBORNGIRL

SnowMonkey wrote: »

Recenly met this girl.... online.... There is attraction there but theres also, no spark. the girl's gay or decied she is, which is pretty understandable. her eyes wonder around the room at moments more then mine, so this wasnt a shock...
i accept with open arms theres about i can really do about it.So where staying as friends....

but the void that she filled has become empty, i know it sound's unuseual to most people but we did really have a personality click.... the problem is i dont useually get to click with many people im a unexcepted person and most people just think im weird..Im really very insightfull in life, and really deep but i dont show this side of my self all to often..

Now im not fuastrated im just a little. dissapointed.. but i know i cant change things..... so why bother... but this is what im wondering. why do i meet so many amazing women yet get no where whats the lesson ?

why am i feelng sorry for my self?

Oh there is a lesson - i jsut havent figured it out yet! i am in the same boat! all the guys i like dont like me and the ones that like me i couldnt be arsed with as they have no personality.

What i suggest and this is what people say to me when i moan like you - We have to meet many the frog to find the prince (or princess in your case) All these bad eggs are just making way for the right one! so hang in there, im sure she will be along soon!

you will know when you have met the right one - believe me!!!

Good luck and dont let it get you down. Enjoy being single, have fun

Curlypinkie

+1 ^^^

This is something a loooooot of guys and girls go through. It's called 'either a feast or a famine' for me, but even if there's a feast I can't seem to stumble across someone substantial enough to rock my boat.

It's just the way it is. I've dated so many guys now the last two years that my friends are laughing they can't remember who is who anymore.
They seems to come in and then woosh out of my life again. Some leave a mark, others don't. I always try to learn something from each and every one of them. If it's a passion for something, an interest, a hobby, I way of looking at life etc... there's always something there. Try doing that, make each and every person that you meet, be it aboy or a girl leave you with something. Never allow yourself to be left with a void, try doing the oppposite:)

Karen_*

Can't add to that Curlypinkie. Great post.:)

SnowMonkey

STUBBORNGIRL wrote: »

Oh there is a lesson - i jsut havent figured it out yet! i am in the same boat! all the guys i like dont like me and the ones that like me i couldnt be arsed with as they have no personality.

What i suggest and this is what people say to me when i moan like you - We have to meet many the frog to find the prince (or princess in your case) All these bad eggs are just making way for the right one! so hang in there, im sure she will be along soon!

you will know when you have met the right one - believe me!!!

Good luck and dont let it get you down. Enjoy being single, have fun

well one lesson is dont get caught upwith just one person when your single i guess..... it makes me feel a hell of a lot better that im not the only person who get this but im a guy and your a girl i should be manly and insted im being a lost little puppy about it all.... it just gets to me and this perticular one because i felt a good connection but in away not but hey...

I can see what you mean....

Curlypinkie wrote: »

+1 ^^^

This is something a loooooot of guys and girls go through. It's called 'either a feast or a famine' for me, but even if there's a feast I can't seem to stumble across someone substantial enough to rock my boat.

It's just the way it is. I've dated so many guys now the last two years that my friends are laughing they can't remember who is who anymore.
They seems to come in and then woosh out of my life again. Some leave a mark, others don't. I always try to learn something from each and every one of them. If it's a passion for something, an interest, a hobby, I way of looking at life etc... there's always something there. Try doing that, make each and every person that you meet, be it aboy or a girl leave you with something. Never allow yourself to be left with a void, try doing the oppposite:)

yeah i agree totally its like some it's your not fussed about and others its like no thanks i am begining to think that your state of mind can some what show you the way...so what your saying is see as many women as possible at once i dont think i or my wallet could handel that some what but im feeling better after reading those to post very possitive....:)