Any ideas??

05D

Long story short......

Had a barney with my BF lasted 2 weeks.

Made up again on Wed.

trying to think of ideas now for a nice weekend or just Sat night. Weather is meant to be crappy so might have to stay in.

Any ideas?

SarahJ

I would just could him a big steak and get a bottle of wine and a dvd. A nice relaxing meal.

If it dones't rain, defo go out for a meal in your best outfit!

05D

Thanks,

Thats what I did on Wed when we made up.

Kinda want to surprise him with something!!!

SarahJ

Is there anything that he likes to do that you really hate? i find thats always good after a fight. It could be something as simple as watching a movie he loves and you hate, and not complaining about it!

05D

Haha yeah watching Air Crash investigates!!

Thats would be really hard for me to do! Sit there and be quiet!

I would definatley have to sozzled on a bottle of wine!!

SarahJ

I hate that show!! But if thats what it takes, I suppose they are worth it:D

Plek Trum

Long soak in a bubble bath with a few drinks (beer?!) and then a *full* body massage, lights dimmed or off, with oils and candles...

SarahJ

Plek Trum wrote: »

Long soak in a bubble bath with a few drinks (beer?!) and then a *full* body massage, lights dimmed or off, with oils and candles...

Ooh thats good!

05D

Yeah I llike that. Way more than Air Crash.

at least we can both get something out of it

dr.bollocko

or meet him at the door with full make up and dressed for bed. Add high heels.
Then he wont care about any aircrash investigates. For dinner, nip to M and S and pick up something u can just bung in the oven. And plenty o' booze.
That's nice though OP. I like a bit of romance. Its hard to be spontaneous in a long relationship sometimes.

05D

Yeah very hard,

Would really just love to surprise him!

Think I might go and spend a few bob on candles and oils!

Would love something totally different and unique!

dr.bollocko

It's hard to get totally different and unique when you are coming back to the same house.
I try and make the place look a bit different if I want to surprise my OH. First thing is to clean the place you will be relaxing in.
Then just do a couple of things to make the place a little different. l pull the table out, drape it in a nice table cloth, set up the plates and wine glasses, get a couple of candles going to keep the low light. We don't have a fire place so I like to hook up an old .avi I have of the fire channel to the tv so it gives that warm fire glow even if the heating isnt there.I like messing with the lighting a lot. Then try and get the relaxing cooking on, so you can just sit and enjoy a glass of wine together while waiting for the food to arrive.
Then a nice bubbley bath if the bath suits two, with a little champagne. I like to use something cheap so I can put strawberries in the champagne and not feel like I am wrecking a nice bottle with sweetness.
I wish I could get off early today now, get some romance on.

craichoe

www.steakandbjday.com


Its never too late to celebrate !

SarahJ

craichoe wrote: »

www.steakandbjday.com


Its never too late to celebrate !

Haha amazing

Climber

FYI - Guy's aren't interested in Candles amd Oil, they think it's soppy and stupid, not romantic.

missingtime

Climber wrote: »

FYI - Guy's aren't interested in Candles amd Oil, they think it's soppy and stupid, not romantic.

Hey...depends whats happening man

SarahJ

Yea I think it depends on what they are getting out of it. And eveyone wants to be relaxed....

05D

Thats what i was thinking, My BF hate baths coz they are too warm and he would be a huge fan of oils!

Would really love guys opinions on this!

dr.bollocko

Well then it's steak and BJ time surely?
That should about do it I reckon!

05D

That wouldn't last too long though!!

dr.bollocko

Well it's a pretty solid starter! Surprise him with a war film. All doods love war films.
Or is there any local events on that he would like to go to? Like sports stuff or anything?

05D

Its meant to be a horrible rainy night so I was planning on staying in.

Do u really think the idea of a lovely night is a BJ? Thats too easy! Want to make it special!

dr.bollocko

Well yeah. I mean I didnt say that was all there was to it at all.
Just get sozzled in minimal clothing. That'll probably lead to a memorable night!
I wouldnt over think it. He will appreciate it that you are relaxed and attentive and whatnot. Of course the real way to most men's heart is electronics.

05D

Like gadgets or toys??

SarahJ

Playstation 3!

dr.bollocko

I guess it depends on the guy doesnt it?
But presents are a different thing to great nights. Just bring your nice attitude, a dvd maybe, plenty of nice booze and some eating supplies and I am sure you will have a great night.

onemanband

Climber wrote: »

FYI - Guy's aren't interested in Candles amd Oil, they think it's soppy and stupid, not romantic.

Agree on this point. Why don't you try someting a bit more outrageous. A night of flilth instead of romance.

Get down to Ann Summers. Buy the following:

1. A slutty as hell outfit for you
2. Some porn that you would enjoy watching yourself
3. A blindfold
4. A pair of handcuffs
5. A vibrator that you would like him to use on you
6. Some sex toy that you would like to use on him
7. Some nice tasting lube.

Then get down to TESCO and buy the following:

1. Condoms if you need them
2. Some baby oil
3. A candle or 2
4. Some whipped cream
5. His favorite food
6. a DVD that you would both like to watch
7. Beer and snacks

Get the house ready and off you go!!!

SarahJ

onemanband wrote: »

Agree on this point. Why don't you try someting a bit more outrageous. A night of flilth instead of romance.

Get down to Ann Summers. Buy the following:

1. A slutty as hell outfit for you
2. Some porn that you would enjoy watching yourself
3. A blindfold
4. A pair of handcuffs
5. A vibrator that you would like him to use on you
6. Some sex toy that you would like to use on him
7. Some nice tasting lube.

Then get down to TESCO and buy the following:

1. Condoms if you need them
2. Some baby oil
3. A candle or 2
4. Some whipped cream
5. His favorite food
6. a DVD that you would both like to watch
7. Beer and snacks

Get the house ready and off you go!!!

My god, ya thought that through lol

05D

Thanks onemanband,

That sounds very interesting!
I know for a fect he would be well up for that (Pardon the pun).

Do guys prefer filth to sensuality?

dr.bollocko

05D wrote: »

Thanks onemanband,

That sounds very interesting!
I know for a fect he would be well up for that (Pardon the pun).

Do guys prefer filth to sensuality?

Yup!
Sensuality is great, but filth is more fun than video games.

miles teg

onemanband wrote: »

Agree on this point. Why don't you try someting a bit more outrageous. A night of flilth instead of romance.

Get down to Ann Summers. Buy the following:

1. A slutty as hell outfit for you
2. Some porn that you would enjoy watching yourself
3. A blindfold
4. A pair of handcuffs
5. A vibrator that you would like him to use on you
6. Some sex toy that you would like to use on him
7. Some nice tasting lube.

Then get down to TESCO and buy the following:

1. Condoms if you need them
2. Some baby oil
3. A candle or 2
4. Some whipped cream
5. His favorite food
6. a DVD that you would both like to watch
7. Beer and snacks

Get the house ready and off you go!!!

Baby oil and latex condoms don't mix. Bring him to Miss fantasia and let him pick out something he'd like. Gauranteed he'll be excited and anticipation on top to boot

kayos

onemanband wrote: »

Agree on this point. Why don't you try someting a bit more outrageous. A night of flilth instead of romance.

Get down to Ann Summers. Buy the following:

1. A slutty as hell outfit for you
2. Some porn that you would enjoy watching yourself
3. A blindfold
4. A pair of handcuffs
5. A vibrator that you would like him to use on you
6. Some sex toy that you would like to use on him
7. Some nice tasting lube.

Then get down to TESCO and buy the following:

1. Condoms if you need them
2. Some baby oil
3. A candle or 2
4. Some whipped cream
5. His favorite food
6. a DVD that you would both like to watch
7. Beer and snacks

Get the house ready and off you go!!!

[joke please dont ban]
Add that girl from your work place he always comments on and he will be like putty in your hands.
[/joke please dont ban]

Right now thats out of the way, sex is good but not everything. Message, bath (at his desired temp!) candles and relaxation time for just the two of you would be just as good. If everything goes right then sex will happen just dont make the whole evening about it. I say that as your more about making up than making out. As for what DVD to watch go with something thats his taste putting on Brigit Jones or something like that is not the way to pamper a man. The worlds most painful sports injuries is

Of course file away the idea of being dressed for bed when he comes home some evening and use it another time. He will be more than happy...

05D

miles teg wrote: »

Bring him to Miss fantasia and let him pick out something he'd like. Gauranteed he'll be excited and anticipation on top to boot

Now thats a good idea and least we can both be involved in that!

Think the night is getting better as we go along. He better not start fighting with me all the time if this is what he gets when we make up!

kayos

If you do go the Ann Summers route skip the handcuffs and get one of their "bondage" kits. Basicly 4 velcro cuffs, a blind fold and two adjustable long straps. Gives you way more options

onemanband

05D wrote: »

Thanks onemanband,

That sounds very interesting!
I know for a fect he would be well up for that (Pardon the pun).

Do guys prefer filth to sensuality?

Remember its not just filth. It's filth followed by beer + food + action DVD.

This is an internationally recognised mathematical formula. Has a hit rate of 99.99%.

05D

Thanks all!!!

Filth first or after guys?

onemanband

05D wrote: »

Thanks all!!!

Filth first or after guys?

First all the time!!!

05D

Before or after his shower? Coz I don't want to annoy him if he's wrecked after work!

dr.bollocko

05D wrote: »

Before or after his shower? Coz I don't want to annoy him if he's wrecked after work!

I have never been annoyed by people wanting sex with me in my life!

Darragh29

05D wrote: »

Haha yeah watching Air Crash investigates!!

Thats would be really hard for me to do! Sit there and be quiet!

I would definatley have to sozzled on a bottle of wine!!

Band of Brothers does it for me! If she could just let me watch it without asking me who the characters are in it, "is that Nix there, is that Winters, where's milarkey, is that Capt. Sobel???"

If that doesn't do it for him, there is a nice hotel called the Kilashee House just out the Naas road in Naas. It's pricy but for a night if you are willing to take the hit on it, you couldn't go wrong there!

05D

Yeah the kilashee is lovely, never stay in it with my OH.

onemanband

05D wrote: »

Before or after his shower? Coz I don't want to annoy him if he's wrecked after work!

Open door in short white bathrobe. Put blindfold on him. Take him upstairs and shower him with blindfold on.

Leave him naked and blindfolded in bedroom/living room. get changed into your slutty gear.

take off blindfold and off you go.

Suggestion for DVD: Rambo 4.

05D

Classic!!


I'm defo going to surprise him some way!


Thanks a million guys for all your ideas and I hope all your weekends are as eventfull as mine :D