One for the Boys

LegacyUser

Hi there, In a small bit of a dilemna, I am hoping to move house in the next few weeks and have just made some calls to places that were advertised in the local paper today. I am a little bit fussy as I only moved house there four months ago but I was told that I would only be sharing the bathroom with one other and it turned out that I am sharing with three others and needless to say I was very annoyed. I started looking for another place and I wanted to stay on the same road,and preferably live with only one other person. Well I struck gold there and found a house that suits me down to the ground so I am seeing the house after work.My question for the lads on the forum is that an ex of mine lives directly across the way,we were seeing each other for four months at the start of this year.He still texts me every now and again but he has a girlfriend now and although this doesnt bother me,should it bother him??We ended cos I needed more time after coming out of a long term relationship and really only saw it as a bit of fun.I am not expecting anything from this and if I was to take this house I would explain that do him but would a guy see that as more???
all advise welcome!!!!

castie

If hes currently got a girlfriend then it shouldnt matter.

Miss Fluff

+1. He has a girlfriend now so has evidently moved on. I'd just go for it and you'd be surprised how little you see of the people who live accross the road from you, very different to living accross a hallway for example. Good luck with the move.

dr.bollocko

If you are worried about being construed as a stalker or something I would say no. But there may be a few awkward moments if it was a bad break up or something like that. It depends entirely on your situation. TBH If you don't think there will be a problem there probably won't be.

Overheal

Did it end amicably? Are you friends? Does one of you still hold feelings for the other?
Just curious.

helimachoptor

I ended up living next door to one of my ex's it wasnt exactly an amicable split but in 18 months I saw her maybe 6 times. Move in cos he has moved on

Burial

Life moves on. If you've found a good place then move in. If you were sharing the house with him it'd be different, however your not. So it's fine. If the break-up was good, he'll be ok. If the break-up was bad he'll have to live with it. Your doing nothing wrong moving in. As the others have said, you'll barely see him. (If you'd find it akward)

Vegeta

Housemove wrote: »

I started looking for another place and I wanted to stay on the same road

Well by the sounds of it you are currently living across the road from him and there is no issue.

Go for it