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Bedroom problems - advice needed!

  • 27-07-2008 7:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Ok I'm a little embarrassed about this problem so gonna go unreg for it. Ive just started a new relationship with a guy I really like and I'm having some problems in the bedroom department. I'm not sure if its just my nerves or what it is so I'm looking for any advice, basically when we are having sex I feel the constant need to go to the toilet(sometimes there is no reason as when I'm in the toilet there is nothing, but when we are having sex if we don't stop I feel like my bladder will explode). I'm really upset over this & feel that he is getting frustrated about it although he says he isn't ANY ADVICE???


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  • #2
    MJOR
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    Ok I'm not a doctor but i think what you might be having is a gspot stimulation this sometimes gives a sensation of wanting to go.

    Other than that maybe the area is being over stimulated and you need to do a post coital flush. It's knida hard to say it might be the position or something.

    Call your Doc maybe.


    I had that sometimes too and my doc gave me the above explaination


  • #3
    Wurly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭Wurly


    MJOR wrote: »
    Ok I'm not a doctor but i think what you might be having is a gspot stimulation this sometimes gives a sensation of wanting to go.

    Other than that maybe the area is being over stimulated and you need to do a post coital flush. It's knida hard to say it might be the position or something.

    Call your Doc maybe.


    I had that sometimes too and my doc gave me the above explaination
    I agree with this and I know the exact feeling that the OP describes. It has happened to me in certain positions and it's extremely uncomfortable so I do sympathise. Does it happen with every position, OP or just certain one's?

    It's nothing to do with bladder anyway so worry not.x


  • #4
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    MJOR wrote: »
    Ok I'm not a doctor but i think what you might be having is a gspot stimulation this sometimes gives a sensation of wanting to go.

    Other than that maybe the area is being over stimulated and you need to do a post coital flush. It's knida hard to say it might be the position or something.

    Call your Doc maybe.


    I had that sometimes too and my doc gave me the above explaination
    That sounds about right. Maybe when you and he really trust each other, maybe try going with that sensation and letting go. I know it may be difficult and embarrassing but you may get a nice surprise at the other side of that.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #5
    sunnyside
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭sunnyside


    Could it be cystitis?


  • #6
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    It could be cystitis but if that was the case the op would have other issues then this.
    OP if your bladder is empty the I would say that is just you coming as I reckon this happens in the build up to an orgasm.

    If you are worried to talk to your dr.


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