Should I try make contact?

LegacyUser

So I was introduced to this girl a couple of months ago at one of my friend's birthdays. I wasn't talking to her for too long, but I thought she was pretty cute.

So anyway, skip forward a few months to last week, and I hadn't seen her since. I was in work (in some shopping centre), just standing at the desk looking out bored as usual. As I looked up out from the shop I saw two girls had just passed and were just about to leave view from the shop when one of them turned around and looked directly at me. I then recognised it was the girl from the party. Thought it was a bit weird how she turned around after having passed and looked straight at me, but shrugged it off.

So then 30 minutes later same deal, I was standing at the desk, same place. I look out, see them walking by again, and just before she walks out of view she turns and glances straight at me, again. So at this point I'm thinking "hmm, this is strange". Then, another 30 minutes later, I'm at the desk, I look out, see them walking the opposite way this time, and as I looked up, I caught the end of her glance. For the third time.

Now, I don't mean to be all "OH MY GOD, a girl looked at me!", but I thought it was weird, or maybe I'm just lonely.

I thought it was strange because it didn't just happen once or twice, it was three times, each time she passed. And more so the fact I've only really met her once and she had already gone well past the shop, but consciously turned back around to look at me, you know? Like I rarely look into shops when I'm around the centre, even if a hot girl works there.

So basically I'm just wondering should I talk to my friend who's birthday it was about this? She's kind of friends with her, so could find out what the deal is and/or hook us up.

EcoGirl

God but men are so dim.

She's interested in you, She's not even being subtle about it. Either that or she just can't believe the size of your ears or something and keeps going past to see if they're really that big!

- if you're interested in her take it further, contact your mutual friend etc.

Good luck with it!

dave.omeara

Yea, get in contact with your mutual friend. What have you got to lose? If you don't, you'll probably be kicking yourself over not doing it.
Good luck.

jeepers101

Go for it dude!

COH

Bring it!

LegacyUser

don't wanna rain on any parades but it's possibly that she simply recognised you, and was looking because she was trying to place the face? also, i dunno what shopping centre you're in, but the one i frequent i would often walk back and forth different floors, just cause i dont map out my trips- id go from one shop one one end, to another on the other end, then remember something i forgot on the first end and just because i keep looking at a guy, it doesn't mean im interested in him, it could just be because im thinking 'where the hell do i know that guy from?!?'
on the other hand, if im checking out a guy in a shop, i may frequent the area in and around the shop more often to be as aloof as id intended

SnowMonkey

like this is my probelem with people today...

people show each other interest and they dont do anything about it why why why why why???

like every ones eather trying to play it cool or scared of been thaught of as a sico (sp)..
Same thing happened ot me recentrly meet this girl chated to her all night.. blah blh blah cute didnt get her number so got it a few days later texted her once she didnt reply sent me a bebo message tho, so i replyed thena nother so i dsaid **** do or die, il ask her and if she sya sno at least i tried. i said hey wanna go for a drink some time no reply;.... Oh well....

the end of it you meet a girl you get on least you can do is try a get her number b say would you like to go for a drink sometime or my personal favourite are ou single there like :eek:....

go forit dude just use bebo to get in contact with her add her as a friend if she excepts then start talking to her pm her ssay hey can ive your number, eather she will or she wont...

but the moral is he who dares wins, but not all the time because women are weird ...

LegacyUser

Thanks for the advice, I'll think I'll make a move on this. As dave.omeara said I'll definitely regret it if I do nothing, and SnowMonkey's post is so right.

geminilady

Yeah think she likes you too, you see her walking back 3 times was probably her trying to notice you!

Ya could pm her..like "Seen you on (insert day here) never knew you worked around here? well anyway have a good weekend...."

I dunno, but say what you think! good luck! make sure to keep us posted, its better to try and fail than fail without trying.