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Can not being in love with your GF make you very sad and lonely?

  • 13-07-2008 7:10pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I dont know what it is, but I just have this emptiness inside me. A constant feeling of homesickness, miss my mom etc. This is not a good way to be for a grown man as I fear Ill never be able to move forward with my life.
    Am I in love with my GF, or is there someone out there that will fill this hole in me. Im so sad and lonely, its ruining my life.


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  • #2
    Jack B. Badd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,294 ✭✭✭Jack B. Badd


    It's highly unlikely that anyone will fill whatever hole is in your life. That's up to you. It's also up to you to figure out whether or not you're in love with your girlfriend. Randomers on the internet won't have the foggiest idea.


  • #3
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    OP
    Your mistake is in expecting another human should be able to fill 'a hole in your life'.
    It will never happen because nobody can do that for you. You must do that for yourself.
    How can YOU fill that hole?

    If you truly do not love your g/f then staying with her and living a lie would make anyone miserable. You cannot make something true by just hoping.
    True happiness comes when you are living the way you should be.


  • #4
    MJOR
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,796 ✭✭✭MJOR


    The hole that you feel is a void that only you yourself can fill. In order to love someone else completely you must first love yourself as an individual.

    Everyone misses their parents......


  • #5
    Leila4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭Leila4


    I'm not sure i really understand your post OP. Firstly how long are you going out with your girlfriend, and do you see a future in it? Secondly are you living far from home thats stopping you from visiting often?


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