If ever i was capable of murder it would have been there and then

LegacyUser

Has anyone ever felt such extreme hatred for a person that you just wish the worst imaginable on them

......and dam im not even a mean guy, im extremely easy going and easy to get on with

....anywhoo to the point....

bear with me here please ill try be as clear as i can.

It all started over a year and a half ago probably more.... my girlfriend and her best female friend (at the time) had a huge falling out over lot a things, my girlfriend who we'll call "ann" and her ex best friend "mary". basically Ann just realized Mary was a complete Manipulating Bi*ch who didn't care about anyone and would take advantage of any so called good friends to get where she wanted, Mary also cheated on boyfriends regularly and tough nothing of this.

Now pay attention this is where things get intresting......

Around the time Ann (my g.f.) and mary stopped taking, mary met a new man and started dating him. I do mma i later found out this man mary was dating was one of my coaches.
At the time this meant nothing to me as i didn't care about the guys personal life and had no strong feelings about her either. After a while Marry joined mma so now my girlfriends ex best friend is in the class, still doest overly bother me , i stay out of her way she stays out of mine .

Then after a few months theres a huge blow up, some stupid fight about nothing between mary and ann who havent talked for months, things were said by girls and friends on both sides.still i stayed out of it, then that night john confronted me at training using me as a scape gote to pin all this **** on, accusing me of calling mary names or sum such childish ****, basically told me hed smash my face in if i didn't sort it out and also proceeded to degrade me and my g.f calling her every name under the sun, if ever i was capable of murder it would have been there and then, But i stood there with my mouth shut not knowing what to do or say , something i regret to this day, he even wanted to fight me there and then but i told him to **** off as he has several years more experience in martial arts than me and it would have been suicide for me.

after that incident i pretty much left the club didn't want to go back, i know i should have just went anyway and not let it bother me but well i just couldnt bear seein his or mary's face after all he said i didnt really give a **** what he said about me but it was what he said about my girlfriend that really made me mad.

long story short that was the end of it for a few months i joined different gym, Ann or i didnt hear form either of them till one day we randomly bumped into each other in town , the 4 of us randomly seeing each other, we instigated nothing out of the blue both of them came up threatening us talking ****. basically just insulting me and my girlfriend, again i wanted to lash out in ager but i didn't , eventually they just walked off when they realized we weren't going to be provoked.

basically theres been a few little incidents like that, my girlfriend even insisted we go to the gaurds as she was so upset because of the situation, the gaurds gave them a warning but to be honest im not stupid strictly speaking no ones doing anything illegal or has any proof of anything and the guards have better things to be doing i know.

It eased off for a while but its mary (the ex best friend) thats the worst she really is a n evil bitch who cant get it out of her head to upset and even cause physically harm if she can to my girlfrined,

Like i think both of them Are ****ing childish they refuse to let this die, its so long ago now i dont even care that much about what was said i can move on the only reason it bothers me is i see how much it upsets and worries my g.f.

she even worries being out on her own in town at night that she runs into one of them and they attach her, unlikely i know but mabey not out of the relms of possibility for the girl anyway...


anyway thats all i have to say, thanks for reading, just wanted to get all that of my chest feel free to voice your opinions.

Wurly

Wow, they sound like a pack of complete gobsh*tes. Talk about needing to get a hobby.

Ignore, ignore, ignore. They will get sick of it eventually.

If your girlfriend really feels that under threat, tell her to go to the guards.

If you retaliate with violence or slanging - a, you've just given them exactly what they wanted - b, you haven't a leg to stand on and c, the longer this pathetic little spat will go on.

Leave it. Ignore them. Its their issue after all.

If it gets physical or gets worse, go to the guards.