Relationship Balancing Act

LegacyUser

Hi Guys,

Just wondering what your opinions are about feelings of love at diferent stages of a relationship.
Do you think that one person is always more into the other person or do you think it's possible for
both people to feel just as strongly as each other at any one time?

The reason i ask is, I'm with my boyfriend for 8 months now and at the begining I persued him. I was mad
about him and luckily he felt the same way about me and we started going out. For the first few months I
was besotted with him and I knew that while he liked me alot, I was more into him then he was into me.
Recently however, something seems to have switched and he appears to be absolutely head over heels with me
and while I'm still mad about him, I know he feels it more at this stage!

Also, if I spend the weekend with my bf I leave his house on a Monday thinking lovingly about him and I'm glowing but
by Wednesday when I haven't seen him in a few days I don't actually miss him that much and when I meet him again on,
say the Friday I'm always a bit unsure if I even fancy him but then we have a great weekend and feel in love again but it wears off mid week
and the cycle continues!

Does this make any sense to anybody?

MJOR

Jessxx wrote: »

Hi Guys,

Just wondering what your opinions are about feelings of love at diferent stages of a relationship.
Do you think that one person is always more into the other person or do you think it's possible for
both people to feel just as strongly as each other at any one time?

The reason i ask is, I'm with my boyfriend for 8 months now and at the begining I persued him. I was mad
about him and luckily he felt the same way about me and we started going out. For the first few months I
was besotted with him and I knew that while he liked me alot, I was more into him then he was into me.
Recently however, something seems to have switched and he appears to be absolutely head over heels with me
and while I'm still mad about him, I know he feels it more at this stage!

Also, if I spend the weekend with my bf I leave his house on a Monday thinking lovingly about him and I'm glowing but
by Wednesday when I haven't seen him in a few days I don't actually miss him that much and when I meet him again on,
say the Friday I'm always a bit unsure if I even fancy him but then we have a great weekend and feel in love again but it wears off mid week
and the cycle continues!

Does this make any sense to anybody?

it sure does i was like that with my ex.... i think one person is always a bit more in it and then it changes think its hormones and outside factors.... enjoy the attention!! You're totally normal and its totally ok to be like that

cowzerp

because you dont have fear of losing him now, you dont miss him when normally you would if you where unsure how he felt..just be glad as it sounds good..dont take him for granted

CathyMoran

It took us over 9 years to get the balance right, I would not worry about it.

Gross Halfwit

Talk to him about it. Really talk about it.

You sound like my ex ... if we had of talked then we'd prob still be together. We talked AFTER the break-up.

Some bad moves were made on my part becasue she was all over me when we were together but then when we were apart she was colder than a petrol station chicken kiev. No texts, no nothing. I started playing hunter .. she ran like a mofo!

Don't let this happen to you two. Talk to him about how you feel. Don't let it fester & drag on ... we don't talk anymore. Shame really.

Good luck.