Advice Needed

lil momma

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sidneykidney

Take it to PI tbh

RonMexico

Stop watching ER.

Feelgood

lil momma wrote: »

I was admitted to A&E over the weekend. Nothing serious, a simple superficial injury.
I don't want to go into too much detail except to say that i looked a mess. Complete mess.
Hair everywhere/unflattering clothes/no make up/swollen face/red eyes..
Complete mess.

So, typically, the doctor who tended my wounded and unkempt body was THE most devastatingly handsome guy in the building.

Needless to say, he has been on my mind.

He spent over half an hour with me (just chit chat as my wounds were superficial, as mentioned, and the nurse had done all the work anyway)

He was not wearing a wedding ring and he did mention he was single. Not that he was coming on to me or anything but it briefly came up in conversation. I know he was interested. Women know these things. Call it intuition or whatever. I did not respond in a similar fashion as i was in a lot of pain and there was a family member present some of the time, so i did not feel comfortable expressing my desire to close the curtain and pull him onto the bed.

Needless to say, i have been regretting it ever since.

What do i do now ?????

I want to see this guy again. But i don't want to have to be involved in a car crash or something to see him.

Any suggestions...

Go for it, you never know unless you try..did you get his number or anything?.

You should get one of those nurses outfits from Ann Summers and go visit him in the hospital. Tell him your wounds are still sore and they need to be kissed better...:D

Are you sure that you not just attracted to the fact that he was a doctor rather than the handsome thing??

_blank_

It's not unknown for patients to develop crushes on their doctors.

He is trained in bedside manner, and he obviously passed this part of his medical college with flying colours.

Not to sound harsh, but I'd say he doesn't even remember you, with the long hours he probably works, and the amount of people he has to see in a days work.

Look at it this way.

Do you remember everything about your day's work for days after?

Gran Hermano

Back away from the stove, we need to turn down the heat and rescue the
rabbit.

siobhan.murphy

why not go and see him?u could let on u are visiting someone and scout around for him at the hosp.?

Sherifu

lil momma wrote: »

I did not respond in a similar fashion as i was in a lot of pain and there was a family member present some of the time, so i did not feel comfortable expressing my desire to close the curtain and pull him onto the bed.

You should have jumped his bones there and then. Chance lost i'm afraid.

niamh_b

I think do it! Just make sure you are well prepared for what you get in return be it a yes or no!

What have you go to lose??

Rb

What Des said.

He's a doctor. Look at it this way, think about the amount of people he meets every day. Now, do you think you're the most attractive/nicest/whatever person he has met on that day, and the days between? If not, do you think he'd be acting differently to the more attractive girls?

kowloon

Womens intuition my ****. He wanted to feel your chest for entirely different reasons :pac:

The_B_Man

send him a thank you card with ur name and number....and a scissor full of ur short n curlies!! that'll give him a big enough hint!!

kowloon

Rb wrote: »

What Des said.

He's a doctor. Look at it this way, think about the amount of people he meets every day. Now, do you think you're the most attractive/nicest/whatever person he has met on that day, and the days between? If not, do you think he'd be acting differently to the more attractive girls?

Surrounded by beautiful, wealthy people from his own line of work who aren't oozing with diseased fluids or choking on their own vomit.
Why would he be interested in a peasant who, as the OP stated, was a mess?

Miss Fluff

Are you sure you couldn't have misread the signals?How do you know he is as interested as you say? He could have kept you chatting to make sure there was no sign of concussion for example. To be honest I'd advise against contacting him.

AckwelFoley

Get a knife and stab yourself in the head with it.

You will get another priority visit to meet your handsome friend.

Notorious

kowloon wrote: »

Surrounded by beautiful, wealthy people from his own line of work who aren't oozing with diseased fluids or choking on their own vomit.
Why would he be interested in a peasant who, as the OP stated, was a mess?

Bit harsh. Since when is it all about looks? Oh thats right, it isn't!

To the OP I think you should do something, I'm no expert as to what, but the thank you card sounds good, or pretend just 'pop in' to say thanks. You've nothing to loose by contacting him.

Gran Hermano

Serious concussion plus hallucinating at the time = Stalker like behaviour

Munchausen syndrome anyone?

kowloon

I met a doctor in Beaumont, we looked into each others eyes, her gorgeous green eyes. I'd say she was mad turned on by me so I do. I can't wait to get my next eye infection.

kowloon

Notorious wrote: »

Bit harsh. Since when is it all about looks? Oh thats right, it isn't!

To the OP I think you should do something, I'm no expert as to what, but the thank you card sounds good, or pretend just 'pop in' to say thanks. You've nothing to loose by contacting him.

We're just having a bit of a laugh at the OPs expense; After Hours!

Stinger-bar

Post a pic of yourself and we'll tell you if he fancied you or not.

Notorious

kowloon wrote: »

We're just having a bit of a laugh at the OPs expense; After Hours!

Good point... I was forgetting where I was.

kowloon

Remember to apply injuries in the photo to reflect your condition at the time

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Do you know his name?

If not, ask to see your medical records (as far as I know you're intitled to) that'll have his name on it.

Phonebook, ring hospital under false pretence (say your a cousin or somthing, or you need to ask a question about the medicine he pprescribed to you and it's kinda personal (you wimmins are supposed to be good at that too ), if that doesn't work google him, and once you have contact be honest: you were in under genuine pretences, liked him, does he want to go for a coffee...?

jazzbiscuit

I guess the best indication of his true intentions was whether you were given a TUBE or not.

lil momma

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AckwelFoley

Im the doctor.

Hello thar.

AckwelFoley

lil momma wrote: »

Snyper ~ A few hours ago you were telling me to get a knife and stab myself in the head with it

.. but that before i recognised you from your sig..

Hows those wounds healing up.

I hope i did a good job on the dressing of your cuts.

longshanks

no, i am spartacus.

i mean the doctor, its me, i'm the doctor. hello there pretty lady. i trust you're feeling better

AckwelFoley

longshanks wrote: »

no, i am spartacus.

i mean the doctor, its me, i'm the doctor. hello there pretty lady. i trust you're feeling better

We in AH do not like dishonesty.


When you lie, god kills a kitten.

longshanks

snyper wrote: »

We in AH do not like dishonesty.


When you lie, god kills a kitten.

when i lie, i kill the kitten myself. god is busy

AckwelFoley

longshanks wrote: »

when I Lie, I Kill The Kitten Myself. God Is Busy

.

Lol

Beanstalk

'Doctor, is that a bone in your pocket, or is it just me'...eh.....try that...you know you want to.....

p.s. what's the story with the poor kid in the photo whose face you so callously cut in half?

flanum

find the canteen at the hospital where he works, find out what time he takes his lunch.

then before he takes his lunch, go up to the nearest window off the corridor(most hospital canteens have big windows), and write in spittle.. a big love heart with your name and his in it (backwards).

then when hes sitting at the table eating lunch with all his doctor colleagues, run up to the window, rap really loudly on it and wave wildly, while breathing heavily on your "sekrit" sign.. thus revealing the cool hidden message, at the same time making gestures with a finger from one hand poking in and out of a "ring" shape on your other hand, making the ring shape between your thumb and first finger... simultanuously mouthing the words "i love you" !

guarenteed to work!:eek:

lil momma

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AckwelFoley

lil momma wrote: »

Stupendous advice Flanum.
Problem ~
I wouldn't even ask a guy for his number.
Acting upon your suggestion would send me right back into A&E.
During his lunch break.

BEANSTALK ~ Why didn't I think of that!!!! Arrrgggggggg..

PS ~ A lot of doctors around here...

Ok, the thing is..

you like him..

hes a guy.. so he rob likes you..

My advice.. send him a thank you card..

On the card, tell him you would like to buy him dinner,, leave your number on it.

If he replies.. you're in there.

If not... watch porn.

Beanstalk

Ok, you: 'Doctor, Doctor, help! I think I have an STD!!!!!'

Doctor: What do mean you have an STD?

You: 'I mean I have a Sexual Transaction Deficit...'

And if that doesn't work (i.e. he's not a total nerd), then vomit on your chest and ask him to clean it up for you.

LovelyTom

snyper wrote: »

Ok, the thing is..

you like him..

hes a guy.. so he rob likes you..

My advice.. send him a thank you card..

On the card, tell him you would like to buy him dinner,, leave your number on it.

If he replies.. you're in there.

If not... watch porn.

tbh this isn't a bad idea. Except maybe dinner might turn him off a bit, maybe ask if he wants to get lunch with you or something... Hey it's either give it a go or never know what could'va happened.

AckwelFoley

LovelyTom wrote: »

tbh this isn't a bad idea. Except maybe dinner might turn him off a bit, .

Agreed.

Lunch, or a coffee, would be perhaps be less formal

monkeyfudge

I'd go with the school girl outfit you have there over the nurses outfit...

Jigsaw

snyper wrote: »

ok, The Thing Is..

You Like Him..

Hes A Guy.. So He Rob Likes You..

My Advice.. Send Him A Thank You Card..

On The Card, Tell Him You Would Like To Buy Him Dinner,, Leave Your Number On It.

If He Replies.. You're In There.

If Not... Watch Porn.

Tbh.

lil momma

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Beanstalk

Good luck!

LovelyTom

lil momma wrote: »

Perfect...
The note..
To sy thank you and suggest lunch..
I think i will do that.

But i would hate for him to think i am a bit desperate or something...
Ahhh

Ok i'm going to do it.
Tomorrow...
Wish me luck..:o

Come on, look at you! He's hardly gonna think you're desperate... Best to try be sweet about it I think.

Good luck!

Let us all know how it goes!

lil momma

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AckwelFoley

lil momma wrote: »

Perfect...
The note..
To sy thank you and suggest lunch..
I think i will do that.

But i would hate for him to think i am a bit desperate or something...
Ahhh

Ok i'm going to do it.
Tomorrow...
Wish me luck..:o

No problem.

You're welcome.

Please call again... and eh.. forget about the whole "i hope he doesnt think im desperate" thing... thats bollox

Beanstalk

You'd want to be careful if you get coffee in a hospital, the staff might think you have a chest infection....:pac:

bunny shooter

May I just add that you are too pretty to be single

x in the city

crazy $hit tbh..!

but good luck op, you need to let us know how this goes, would make a good episode of ER.

why did you cut that poor chappy out of the pic...meh.

LovelyTom

lil momma wrote: »

I will provide updates.. if there is one to be had... if he gets back to me... !!!!

Please remember lads,
That photo looks a lot better than how i looked when i turned up in the a&e...
typically he saw me looking my worst..
worse than my worst.
So i am not too sure how this is going to go..
I'll just have to send the note and see i suppose !!!

Make sure you give it to him in person! So he can see how hot you are and to make sure he remembers you!

Rb

Doing anything more than absolutely nothing is going to borderline psychopathic.

Think about it, if one of your customers did it to you you'd be freaked out. Also, what happens if it goes badly, think of the embarrassment you'd have to face walking into that hospital again.

Lol @ tracking him on myspace though.

AckwelFoley

Rb wrote: »

Oh and not to be harsh, but if that's your kid in the picture I wouldn't bother. Think a doctor would want some bird who has a kid with another guy?

I dont think anyone really thinks like that anymore??

I know it wouldnt even cost me a thought...