delicate issue

LegacyUser

When i receive a handjob from a girl, i usually find it quite uncomfortable. The girls I have been with so far in my short sex life, have tended to tug at my penis which can even be slightly painful at times. I'm grateful that they are doing it but would prefer if they would slide their hand up and down my penis as opposed to tugging it tightly. How do I let them know this without insulting them or making them angry and potentially ruining things with that girl?

Miss Fluff

Show them how you like it and they'll soon catch on. A few appreciative groans and telling them how much you like it like that when they are doing it right should point them in the right direction.

Xiney

Honestly, just tell them.

But you can do it in a nice, maybe even sexy way. Take a hold of their hand, look into their eyes and tell them something along the lines of "Actually, I really like it more like this" and show them.

This works for anything really.



And for the record, handjobs aren't as easy to figure out as they sound. I think I made my first handjob reciever sprout tears

Overheal

are you circumcised?

LegacyUser

Overheal wrote: »

are you circumcised?

no

MysticalSoul

You really need to tell the girl you are with, as in, how are they going to know how YOU like it unless you guide them. Maybe put your hand over theirs and guide that way to show how you like it, if you feel you can't tell them.

The first guy who kissed my nippled pulled like mad with his teeth, and it bloomin hurt like crazy. I only wish I had the confidence to tell him that at the time, as in how was he to know that it was hurting me.

GirlInterrupted

Try ''thats nice, but this is even better...''

xOxSinéadxOx

Witm8?

d22ontour

No pain , no gain.



Seriously unless it's causing tremendous pain which i doubt it is then let her do it her way unless you are too used to quick relief ....

Big_Mac

Just put her your hand over hers when she's workin away and make a slight adjustment. She'll soon catch on unless she's ubersensetive.

MagicMarker

Lube....

Bottle_of_Smoke

Me too, I find most women are terrible at it.

Best solution I think is to take their hand and move it to the top of your lad & start the rhythm your self with her hand, lube can help. PErhaps some penises are better for **** than others but I have enjoyed some girls doing it.

yawnstretch

Yeah I've had this experience too - and I'm sure women too. Maybe you could ask her for advice on what she likes and then later it wont seem critical when you tell her how you like it?