feelingempty

taylor1501

Im not sure where to start. I dont find it as easy as most to post
my personal issues and I dont understand how total strangers are going to care about anything I have to say. I just feel like nothin good is ever going to happen for me.just nothing and i have no idea where to begin with this.:(

RedXIV

Ok, well take your time. I care, otherwise i wouldn't have read and bothered to respond. What do you reckon is getting you down? Care to elaborate a bit for me?

Feel free to PM either if you prefer?

RealEstateKing

start with your age, your sex, whether your married, single, straight or gay, what you do for a living, something we can get a handle on.

taylor1501

Im sorry all I can do is cry and im probably being selfish cause theres people in the world far worse of than me but im not a bad person yet all i can do is cry. its the only thing i do wen im alone and i cant stop

RedXIV

OK ok ok, well everyone else's problems don't affect you so we don't care about them. What is it thats got you down? Is there something in your life you'd like to change? Do you feel like you've got no options coz that's never true. Give me a problem and i'll tackle it for ya at the moment all i can do is hand over virtual tissues

No1XtinaFan

do you feel like you're crying for no reason or has something happened?

taylor1501

I thought i could do this that it would be easy if i found some one who could listen or be there for me its bloody hard i cant do this and appologise if iv wasted anyones time im so sorry

Irishcrx

There are no judgements in here only shoulders to lean on. Tell us what is going on and we'll do our best to help .

RedXIV

didn't waste my time, and am here if ya need it

SpitfireIV

taylor1501 wrote: »

I thought i could do this that it would be easy if i found some one who could listen or be there for me its bloody hard i cant do this and appologise if iv wasted anyones time im so sorry

What ever is up mate, try get it out, I find it helps, whether its writing it all down on paper, or typing something here, helps gets things off your mind! You may be surprised and find that no matter what your problem may be there are other who are dealing with similar, or have gone through similar and can offer good advice and reassurance

Karen_*

taylor1501 wrote: »

Im sorry all I can do is cry and im probably being selfish cause theres people in the world far worse of than me but im not a bad person yet all i can do is cry. its the only thing i do wen im alone and i cant stop

There might be people far worse off but that doesn't mean you can't be upset. You're really low in yourself. Do you have any reason to feel like this and do you know why you're crying?

econ08

taylor1501 wrote: »

I thought i could do this that it would be easy if i found some one who could listen or be there for me its bloody hard i cant do this and appologise if iv wasted anyones time im so sorry

A few questions:

Do you feel tired all the time?

Has your sleep pattern changed? E.g. waking up early in the morning or sleeping all the time.

Have you lost interest in your passtimes and hobbies?

Is your memory affected?

Have you been withdrawing from social events?

Do you have thoughts of suicide?

If you are answering yes to these questions you need to contact a doctor as soon as possible.

No1XtinaFan

taylor1501 wrote: »

I thought i could do this that it would be easy if i found some one who could listen or be there for me its bloody hard i cant do this and appologise if iv wasted anyones time im so sorry

But you've found lots of people here to listen to you
Don't be embarrassed (sp.) or ashamed of feeling down, no one is eternally happy, it's human nature to be upset about something.
It can feel better to get things off your chest, and even more so here I find as you're not facing anyone so you can say what you truly feel, I'm sure whatever it is someone here will be able to relate to you and/or offer you some advice
I hope you feel better soon x

Nevyn

RedXIV stop solictiing people to pm you.

taylor1501

Everyone has crap days esp when you are up to your eyeballs with a child.
No matter how bad things are it will pass, I am going to lock this for now if you want you can start another thread or ask for this one to be reopened.