Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Wedding Present - money

  • 21-05-2008 11:28am
    #1
    davyjose
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭


    What is a standard acceptable amount to give as a present, going alone to a wedding? Cheers


Comments

  • #2
    c - 13
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭c - 13


    Depends on the relationship between you and the person.

    Close Relation >> Acquaintance


  • #3
    davyjose
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    It's a Good friend.

    Normally I wouldn't think twice and would just be automatically generous, but money is tight, and the wedding is abroad, so I really don't have huge scope.


  • #4
    c - 13
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭c - 13


    Last wedding I was at (as a couple) it was E200 gift for a distant enough cousin. If cash is tight just throw in what you can i'm sure they're not particularly going to mind ?


  • #5
    MistyCheese
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,006 ✭✭✭MistyCheese


    My significant other and I plan to marry abroad next year. We're not expecting money off anyone. If we did get any from family members we certainly wouldn't accept more than €100. That's from a brother or a sister, mind. And, like I said, we're not actually expecting anything.


  • #6
    lily lou
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 153 ✭✭lily lou


    Ye I would assume as the wedding itself is going to cost you quite a bit the couple probably won't expect a huge amount!!


  • Advertisement
  • #7
    jos28
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,219 ✭✭✭jos28


    The general rule for a wedding at home is to cover the cost of the meal (approx). So if the hotel is €100 per head, you give €100. But I have to agree with Lily, a wedding abroad is a different matter. The fact that you are going to the expense of attending their wedding abroad, the couple will not be expecting a huge amount. I have been to a few weddings abroad and the couples seemed genuinely delighted that people were there to share the event. Have they actually asked for money or can you give a gift ?


  • #8
    oblivious
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,381 ✭✭✭oblivious


    A recent wedding invite the couple had "We want your presence not your presents" i though that was a nice.


  • #9
    Tableman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 234 ✭✭Tableman


    I shall be attending a wedding of a close friend in a few months also. I will probably give them money but I would like to also give them some small gift as well. I was looking up traditional gifts on google as I have no idea what to get. Makeup bells seem to be a popular one. Do people give these often @ weddings?


Advertisement