Curious and confused

rocks

Hi everyone,
So here's my problem, i have a gf, we've been going out for about a year now. I love her, and i am very attracted to her, great sex life etc. so there's no problem there. The problem is, that lately ive become interested in tranny's (pre-op). i would love to get together with one for some fun, to see what it would be like. Im not attracted to men, but i am attracted to penis'. i know that sounds weird, but its how i feel.
I dont know what to do, i wouldnt cheat on my girlfriend. But for me, experimentation is not a good reasoin to break up woth someone you love.

do you love it?

would you not try talking to your girlfriend about it?
i mean if you love her and trust her that shouldnt be a huge issue....like hint around the subject first maybe in a funny way and see what her reaction to it is

azezil

do you love it? wrote: »

would you not try talking to your girlfriend about it?
i mean if you love her and trust her that shouldnt be a huge issue....like hint around the subject first maybe in a funny way and see what her reaction to it is

I agree with this, perhaps she could also introduce a strap-on or dildo into your sex life as well.

do you love it?

yeah a strap on might be good.

or maybe some tranny porn on tv when youre having sex.

but i think there may be other issues beneath it all, you could possibley be bisexual?

Kazobel

To the OP, it's a fetish thats all, people have them for everything and the Transsexual one is more common than you'd think. The strap on suggestion, while a logical conclusion, won't work because I'm assuming in most of these fantacies you're the giver and not the reciever? so a strap-on is never going to work because everyone is assuming you want to be fcuked but I think at most you want to be the giver and maybe masturbate them while you're doing it? and that won't really work with a plastic penis. All I can say is if you love your girlfriend then don't act on it, Trans porn is probably your best bet but even at that I wouldn't advise telling your girlfriend, trust me she won't be all understanding about it, very few girls would accept that their boyfriend also like penises no matter what way it's dressed up. I'm not taking a hit or anything, I'm just trying to give you some perspective. If you decide to go ahead anyway and try it out then play safe because it's her health you'll be risking too

philoshea

talk to your girlfriend

Kazobel

philoshea wrote: »

talk to your girlfriend

Don't, you'll regret it. It's only a fantasy, you haven't acted on it so why hurt her like that? she won't be cool with it, a girl hearing her boyfriend likes penises is not the same as a guy hearing his girlfriend likes vaginas, don't confuse the two because it'll end badly, no mess.

Rev Hellfire

Kazobel wrote: »

Don't, you'll regret it.

Never was a truer word said. It'll be a fast track ticket to dumpsville.
The simple fact is that your misses will not see it the way you do and is unlikely to be best pleased to find out her other half is gay (yes yes I know you don't view yourself that way). So discretion is the better part of valour for you.

LostControl

You've got to be joking, he cannot tell his girlfriend anything, she will think your gay or something which unfortunately can be a major turn-off for girls and she may dump you with some excuse like ''I think you need to discover yourself''. I guess you could try with the whole tranny thing, but what do you want to try, simply oral sex or were you going to go the full way? Sounds like a bad situation to place yourself in to be honest, go with your gut feelings anyway, just be sensible.

spurious

Is the OP male?

**edit - ok one of the OP's back posts mentions male waxing, so I guess male it is.
I must admit I read the original post as being from a gay woman, but not to worry, as you were, boys and girls.

Fatloss08

a friend of mine is in the same boat as op poster

but as fair as ive know him all 24 years he's been a kinky bloke with women , suppose its just the though of doing something you shouldnt do

for some people its sex outdoors others its golden showers or whatever they like

when u do something ur not meant to you get excited

i know for a fact he aint into men and loves women to much but he's kinky and just wants fun etc , he's a single bloke so wants to get this out of his system

hope this helps

and dont tell your gf

underwraps

rocks wrote: »

Hi everyone,
So here's my problem, i have a gf, we've been going out for about a year now. I love her, and i am very attracted to her, great sex life etc. so there's no problem there. The problem is, that lately ive become interested in tranny's (pre-op). i would love to get together with one for some fun, to see what it would be like. Im not attracted to men, but i am attracted to penis'. i know that sounds weird, but its how i feel.
I dont know what to do, i wouldnt cheat on my girlfriend. But for me, experimentation is not a good reasoin to break up woth someone you love.

I am like you in the sense that I am attracted to penis. All my adult life I have been in straight relationships, but recently I met up with a guy and we jacked each other off. There was no kissing or anything and I am not interested in that side of it, but I really enjoyed the experience so much so that I would like to do it more often. I also enjoy looking at erect penis photos and seeing guys climax.

LegacyUser

Yeah, I am totally in that same boat.

For years I've been obsessing what giving a dude a blowjob will be like and tomorrow I'm going to bite the bullet (hah) and suck this guy I know off.

We've only recently met and we've been getting on well, so I asked him and he's ok with it. He really wants to suck me off too, so I guess it works out.

I'm really looking forward to this as it will either get it out of my system or confirm somethings about myself