I feel angry and jealous

half_life_man

Well I really like this girl thats in my class and we get on great together. But just a few days ago I found out she has been scoring on and off with another guy in my class for the past year. I feel real angry that she kept it secret, especially for so long! I thought she liked me back because lately she has been sending me signals like holding hands and rubbing my leg under tables and stuff. Oh and btw she is not a slut or anything! It just felt like someone dropped a ton of bricks on me when I found out. Should I just forget about her. I'm sick of getting really close with girls and staying friends. I really really like her! Especially since I have known her a few years. Anyone got any advice? Badly needed!

Caoimhín

Really man, forget about her.
I know this sounds old but theres plenty more where she came from. Its all part of growing up and it will hurt for a bit but you will be fine.

suzy5978

i agree with the post above.or if u wanted to try keep your distance for a while,see if she comes after you ,if she does well and good,if she doesnt then its her loss.

Overheal

I'd avoid this. To be giving you really strong signals like that and keeping you in the dark about this other guy spells out two probable things to me: she likes the other guy, but either because she cant have him or because they are having problems she is acting out on you; either to make him jealous or make herself feel better.

allybhoy

Yeh, id forget about it to be honest. I know im being jonny hindsight here but you probably should have plucked up the courage and made a move ages ago at least you wud know were u stand like

AARRRGH

I'm gonna agree with the crowd and say she sounds like bad news. She's stringing you along. People who string people along don't give a **** about anyone but themselves.

Do yourself a favour and get this woman out of your life before your feelings get deeper.