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What Do I Do About Sex

  • 14-04-2008 11:21am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi
    Im writing this here because I'm a 23yr old man living in Dublin. I would call myself moderately attractive and I don't have a huge social life but I do get out when I can and keep myself busy. Im in my last year of college.

    About a year ago I broke up with a girl. I was going out with her for two years. I dont speak to her that much anymore but it was an amicable split.

    Basically I havent had sex since I was with my ex, and I would like to, but I dont think Im ready for any kind of commitment. I just want a casual encounter between consenting adults.

    Does anyone have any comments on how this can happen because I obviously wouldn't ask any of my friends, it would have to be a complete stranger, and I'm sorry if this offends anyone but I just want a casual encounter (either one night stand or brief fling) to start with. I dont want to mess anyone up emotionally and if something develops Ill see what happens, but at the moment, its just casual sex.


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  • #2
    John Mason
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    there are loads of adulting dating site arrange which specialise in casual sex, sign up to one of them and see what happens


  • #3
    Gurgle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,064 ✭✭✭Gurgle


    Wondering wrote: »
    I havent had sex since I was with my ex, and I would like to, but I dont think Im ready for any kind of commitment. I just want a casual encounter between consenting adults.

    Does anyone have any comments on how this can happen because I obviously wouldn't ask any of my friends, it would have to be a complete stranger, and I'm sorry if this offends anyone but I just want a casual encounter (either one night stand or brief fling) to start with. I dont want to mess anyone up emotionally and if something develops Ill see what happens, but at the moment, its just casual sex.
    No offence but why not go find a hooker?

    Despite the attached stigma, you'd be better off with a decent pro than a slapper.


  • #4
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    Gurgle wrote: »
    No offence but why not go find a hooker?

    Despite the attached stigma, you'd be better off with a decent pro than a slapper.

    A hooker is one idea, but not my preferred choice.

    For every horney guy out there that wantd casual sex, there is an equally horney woman out there that wants it too. You just need to connect the dots.

    I think if you go to do this on a web site, you are treating sex as a commodity.

    The fun is in the chase my friend


  • #5
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Just because you join one of those sites it does not mean every person you contact on it leap into bed with you there is still the element of the chase and rejection but OP at least it gives you more options and you can have discussion back and forth a lot easier then in a crowded loud nite club.


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