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so foolish

  • 07-04-2008 9:14am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi everyone,
    Just another broken hearted woman looking for advice on how to cope the xxxx on and get over him. it all ended saturday by me cos he was accusing me of being on websites that i wasnt on. Though a few weeks before he had ended it and basically i rang him and sobbed my heart out. there is loads of **** behind it. he went away for six months said he was coming home in three etc etc. last night i felt like i was torturing myself thinking of him plotting and planning since he came back to return to Oz. He started fights over nothing and always seemed so angry and resentful of me. Like he came back for me and its not working out here job wise etc. I feel physically ill cant sleep. I then left stupid messages on his phone last night. I feel like a fool so stupid. Im 28 cant remember the last time i felt so sickened, knowing i was planning a future with him all love sick, The whole time he was thinking of there. im just rambling now but how do i stop thinking about him where is the off button......i want him to be miserable and knowing he is not cos he has his little plan hurts so bad.....Please give me words of wisdom to make me cop on.....How long does this **** last.....the day seems so long without somone to share it with....


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  • #2
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    You need to get your sh*t together. From reading your posts, it would appear that you are better off without him. Now you need to make yourself believe that. Cut off all contact, make plans to keep yourself occupied, call on friends and family to rally round you. Most of all, keep your pride and head high. Good luck.


  • #3
    Balmed Out
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,730 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    dudara wrote: »
    You need to get your sh*t together. From reading your posts, it would appear that you are better off without him. Now you need to make yourself believe that. Cut off all contact, make plans to keep yourself occupied, call on friends and family to rally round you. Most of all, keep your pride and head high. Good luck.

    very true. Also exercise daily, will help u feel happier and maybe book a holiday tro have something to look forward to. Id also reiterate the cut all contact. Very important if u want to get over him quickly. Best of luck.


  • #4
    Mr. Incognito
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    why do women love bastards so much. if he gave a crap he wouldn't be treating you like ****e all the time- move on.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks... feeling better already. sorry about that rant earllier. i know its so bad for me. gonna try really hard to be stronger now.


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