How to NOT BE AVAILABLE

LegacyUser

With out goin into the specifics.. im too available to m boyfriend. so he is takin advantage of the fact that im always there.. with out playin games (and i feel it slightly is) how do i get him to realise that hey.. i need to make time/plans/communicate with this girl WITHOUT makin it an issue or drivin him away..

Zen 2nd

Its quite simple.

Let him know what your feeling are on this matter. He can't read your mind so its better to tell him. Its only natural to have some breathing space for yourself and not to be expected to drop everything you are doing all the time.

Nerin

just tell him straight out*, but do it in a nice way, dont just turn around and say f**k off,youre always around me.
in the words of that annoying little fella axel rose, everbody needs some time,on their own.


*there are going to be lots of similar posts,i know.

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Overheal

Wash your hair?

Seriously though if you make plans for the other aspects of your life it will soon fit that he will have to fit into that plan. I imagine you dont plan a lot of stuff?

Nevyn

Get a life.
Seriously make plans that do not invovle him.

Sherifu

Independent women are sexy.

...'Throw your hands up at me' /tangent

TEH REAL CDP

Tell him you need space. Encourage him to go out with his mates. Do it in a playful way and he'll think you're the best evAr!

or what thaedydal said.

Puffin

Turn off your mobile.

Nikster

Find a new hobby so you'll be too busy to see him ALL the time