Girls opinion on kissing

LegacyUser

I have kissed plenty of girls and was never told i was bad, i acutally thought i was pretty good at it ( but dont we all think that ). I was with a girl last weekend gone and we kissed, sorry to be crude, but her tongue was going 90 against mine and usually or so i thought everyone did it slow and gentle, but this girl was different from what i am use to.

I was just curious, do most girls like it gentle with tongues or going 90 with it. I feel very embarrassed by asking this, but i started to question myself. I always thought everyone to their own. I never thought there was a correct way or wrong way when kissing.

All advise and smart comments welcome :-)

Marksie

One thing i have learned is never to expect or assume that there is a right way or wrong way to kiss.

Kisses can be slow and then work to an intense degree of passion. Though jawing away first off can come as a bit of a surprise tbh. It can be intensely arousing when this happens as it leads to an immediate release of passion... awkakening shakti's fire.

Its more important to be aware of the intent behind the kiss and that of course includes your intent.
But people kiss differently and it is unique to theh person, and their experience.
From the delicate lip touching to the tongues moving through., the exhange of breath, to butterfly kisses on faces on necks.

It is something that i try to avoid labelling: the i am good at kissing. As it does imply that there is a set way of doing it.

Better to think of kissing as an art and that a hig degree of adaptability is required when with both pallate and materials.

Curvy Vixen

Hhmmm...I don't think that there is a right and wrong way to be honest. Everyone is different and at different times something that felt fab yesterday could feel crap today.

In my younger years (:o) my friend got off with a guy a couple of times and raved to me about how good he was. She got back with her ex leaving this guy free and I had had a couple of gins and ended up snogging him. It was like snogging a slimy wet eel :eek:

I do think that it's up to all parties kissing to set the pace though. If at the time the 'going at it with speed' thing wasn't doing it for you then you should have got her to slow down either verbally or physically.

Failing that she was a crap kisser

meglome

I agree with what's been said so far (although I'm not a girl). You can consider yourself a good kisser but that means being adaptable to the situation and the person. Sometimes people are just not very compatible with each other. Personally I'm all for tongue action but it shouldn't be like an eel on acid.

Das Kitty

OP did you like the way she kissed. You should worry less about your technique and consider what you're getting from it. If someone kissed me like that I don't think I'd be too keen to go for another!

Balmed Out

i think someones a bad kissser when
if its the same kiss all the time
if it involves leaving my face covered in saliva when were in a club etc
if it involves trying to c how far down my throat she can stick her tongue

estar

going ninety at it would remind me of being in school
and kissing someone, the old washing machine effect.
its like how you thought you should do it when you
were 15 or so, and then you learned over time that
it wasnt very pleasurable. just spitty.


but as i said thats just me.

rusalka

The "washing machine technique" (:D) aside, I don't think there is a wrong way, OP, as long as it feels good for all concerned!

I just like some variety in a guy - like slow, gentle, lingering exploration to ardent, charged, forceful tongue action! It's all good!

LegacyUser

Das Kitty wrote: »

OP did you like the way she kissed. You should worry less about your technique and consider what you're getting from it. If someone kissed me like that I don't think I'd be too keen to go for another!

I did mention it to one of friends on the way home and he suggested it was probably her first real kiss, but i didtt think so cause she was quite good looking, maybe it was her style. I did kiss her a couple of more times, but i left soon after.

chuci

ah the washing machine that was a good move- ahem.
as someone said above a good kiss is when your face isnt covered in siliva- that is gross.
but different strokes for different folks