What's more important ladies

Dun laoire

Looks or Sense of humour?

I've got both when i'm drunk so i've nothing to worry about but just to put it out there really.

barbiegirl

Looks initially when you first meet, but sense of humour in the long run. Plus if your not that gifted in the looks dept. a good sense of humour will make you attractive to girls who know you.

RxQueen

sense of humor, whats the point of waiting him to be good looking if they got the humor of a plank:rolleyes:

Lux23

A bit of both really.

Maple

Dun laoire wrote: »

Looks or Sense of humour?

I've got both when i'm drunk so i've nothing to worry about but just to put it out there really.

When drunk?? So what are you like when sober? Ugly and dull?

Anyway, imo personality ftw. No point in spending your time with a good looking guy who's got the personality of a rock.

Although there has to be something about the guy that you're attracted to, no point in it if you can't imagine yourself getting down and dirty with them. I'm too young to be looking for companionship.

LadyJ

OP, how old are you? This seems like a ridiculous question to be asking past the age of 12....

Crazy Catlady

Dun laoire wrote: »

Looks or Sense of humour?

I've got both when i'm drunk so i've nothing to worry about but just to put it out there really.

You sound like a winner. A funny, goodlooking, modest drunk? Where, oh where can I find you....:p

Dun laoire

LadyJ wrote: »

OP, how old are you? This seems like a ridiculous question to be asking past the age of 12....

11 x x

Dun laoire

maple wrote: »

When drunk?? So what are you like when sober? Ugly and dull?

Anyway, imo personality ftw. No point in spending your time with a good looking guy who's got the personality of a rock.

Although there has to be something about the guy that you're attracted to, no point in it if you can't imagine yourself getting down and dirty with them. I'm too young to be looking for companionship.

It was only a matter of time before i was gonna be pulled up on that. Anyway it's rare i'm sober so it doesnt matter Ye little minx

Clare Bear

Looks, I'm a shallow biatch. But some of us are lucky enough to have fellas that have both

OP are you saying that good looking guys don't have a sense of humour? You can have both you know. It is possible believe it or not!

Lurvely

A bit of both definitely, no point in having a looker if your bored all the time!

Cathmandooo

Both also, we need to be able to have a good laugh together as well as being attracted to each other. Pretty much a must.

Peared

A good looking fella will get less good looking by the minute if hes boring/no sense of humour until hes not remotely attractive.

A less good looking man will get more attractive by the minute if hes being sarcastic and witty (shows intelligence imo) and making me laugh.

Dun laoire

Clare Bear wrote: »

Looks, I'm a shallow biatch. But some of us are lucky enough to have fellas that have both

OP are you saying that good looking guys don't have a sense of humour? You can have both you know. It is possible believe it or not!

Well lets just say there's only two blokes you can choose from. Dull but good looking or meh but bang on and made you laugh.

WindSock

I couldn't be with a good looking brick wall, or a mutt ugly comedian. Maybe Bill Bailey would do, if he wore a mask from time to time

Maple

Dun laoire wrote: »

It was only a matter of time before i was gonna be pulled up on that. Anyway it's rare i'm sober so it doesnt matter Ye little minx

Dun laoire wrote: »

Well lets just say there's only two blokes you can choose from. Dull but good looking or meh but bang on and made you laugh.

Then meh but bang on. Definitely. Intelligence and good humour is a turn on imo.

Although it does depend how meh he is. I'm no Mother Theresa giving it all to charity cases.

Clare Bear

Dun laoire wrote: »

Well lets just say there's only two blokes you can choose from. Dull but good looking or meh but bang on and made you laugh.

Oh the dilemma! Feck it I'd go for the dull good looking one and make him sit through weeks of Billy Connolly and Bill Bailey videos. I'll beat a sense of humour in to him!

Dun laoire

maple wrote: »

Then meh but bang on. Definitely. Intelligence and good humour is a turn on imo.

Although it does depend how meh he is. I'm no Mother Theresa giving it all to charity cases.

what if he were to be stupid but funny. I'm just working out my chances here. Let's say for example i was terrible at geography but i always got picked first in rounders, would that be o.k like??

Maple

Dun laoire wrote: »

what if he were to be stupid but funny. I'm just working out my chances here. Let's say for example i was terrible at geography but i always got picked first in rounders, would that be o.k like??

Oh sure, he'd need to be fit.

Dun laoire

maple wrote: »

Oh sure, he'd need to be fit.

Careful now!! The boys up the corridor wont be too impressed.

Maple

Dun laoire wrote: »

Careful now!! The boys up the corridor wont be too impressed.

Lol.

Perhaps I should have better qualified that remark.

Y2J IS GOD

no matter what anyone says its looks that you notice first in a fella

Lola123

Funny is v. important, but you have to find the person attractive! As for a big wallet, not very relevant in my opinion, but they have to be good in bed!

themadchef

I think the older you get the less important looks become in finding a life partner.


If you're young and just out for a bit of fun then all the good looking guys usually get first preferance (till you find out they possibly have a brain the size of a chicken )

If you have a boyfriend thats better looking than you...spends more time shopping or grooming than you then hogs the mirror.... fair play to ya.

I'm much more into someone i have a laugh with, someone i have common interests with.....looks fade.

Oh yeah and a big wallet.....in fact the word "big" in general where your man is concerned is no bad thing unless it's his ego.

Niamho!

Clare Bear wrote: »

Looks, I'm a shallow biatch. But some of us are lucky enough to have fellas that have both

OP are you saying that good looking guys don't have a sense of humour? You can have both you know. It is possible believe it or not!

Bit like that mysmelf. theres no point lying about it. ive been on loads of dates with sound blokes where i just dont fancy them physically AT ALL and I think you need to fancy them even just a little bit.

But then it also happens that if you're around someone regularly enoguh and you like their personality...it does happen. but generally looks first.

DetectivFoxtrot

bit of both i.e. looks and personality. :cool::)

big wallet wouldn't attract me if the aforementioned qualities didn't exist. eeugh

there's nothing more off putting than a personality-less knob with a few squids.....

Bunnywabbit*

I love any guy who can make me laugh

But I'll admit, I LOVE a guy with long hair

Humour isn't top of my list, it grand in moderation but too much is a massive turn off for me. I see it as little more than loudmouthed attention seeking.

Physical attraction is cruical but it is more than just finding someones look appealing.

Wreck

WindSock wrote: »

Maybe Bill Bailey would do, if he wore a mask from time to time

Gonna have to disagree with you there, I'd gladly go out with Bill Bailey, he comes across as really interesting (and obviously very funny). I'm a hetero male though, so the sex stuff might be a bit awkward .

Orlee

It's not that clear cut - a third option is deffinately required!

lizann

Its appearance you notice first

tallaght01

Looks all the way*

*when I'm checking out ladies.I'm not ghey

mollybird

i def would not go for looks. i did for years and i got burned everytime. i didn't fiind my O/H attractive for years and one day i just saw him in a new light. he treats me so well, gets me in trouble for laughing in the college lib and is there for me anytime i need him. i couldn't ask for anything more:)

Babette08

Looks initially but unless you're in a situation where someone who isn't too blessed aesthetically can grow on you then you're not really gonna give them a chance unless you at least find them somewhat attractive. In a perfect world both obviously

gollyitsolly

can i have one of each?