Please Help

deise gal

Hi all,
Basically I was out in my local/usual night club on Saturday night. I met a boy we kissed and swapped numbers all was good. However i got home at 3.30am wrecked tired and went to bed straight away!Anyway I wake up on Sun morning and have like two texts from this fella that he sent at like 4am. Anyway I text him back on sun morn and we were texting for about two hours all was good until he started saying he would tell his friend all about me anyway i was like oh now boy hold your horses:D anyway stopped texting him had stuff to be doing. He then rang me, I did not answer and he text me sayin that he was talking to a fella (that i do not know from adam) and he found out what kinda car I drive and all( at this point i stopped texting him) I did not reply but he kept on texting me, the msgs were getting a bit obscene i'd open them but not reply. Anyway i decided to delete all the msgs, and his number etc( hoping he would go away). He has since text me about 5 times today and rang me? I am freaked out to say the least, What should I do?

Thank you all so much for your help.

deise gal

This is Personal Issues where i have posted it !!

slumped

text him back and let him know that if he persists that you will report him to the Gardai.

or just ignore him....should stop in a few days.

S

TestTransmission

Obviously..he is being a bit over enthuastic...what age is he if u dont mind me asking?U cud just tell him to back off,tell him ur not interested..etc etc

deise gal

right i have text him telling him to basically go away i'm not interested but to no avail he keeps texting!
oh i'm 18 by the way i have met guys before gone on dates etc. but this particular fella just freaks me out if you guys saw the msgs they would make you sick.

geminilady

This guy seems abit obsessed. Have u thought about changing your number? And if u hav bebo/myspace set it up to private?

SarahSassy

Tell him in no uncertain terms to stop. Keep the texts and note the time of them. Save as many obscene ones as you can... Get a brother / uncle / father to call him and warn him off if he does not listen to your request for him to stop....

deise gal

oh he found me on bebo my page was public, i declined his request and made my page private. I have deleted all messages they are so disgusting. I rang my mobile network to see if i could get the number blocked, but however you need a garda report!

paulksnn

Make sure when you tell him to stop, that the next people he'll be talking to on the subject will be the gardai if he's not careful.
Deleting his messages and number does nothing for him.
Do you know where he lives? does he live with his family?
A warning that his family will find out about his behaviour may be enought to dissuade him.
Good luck

MagicMarker

I assume this guy is around the same age as you?

I'd relax a little, he's just immature and doesn't know how to handle himself around the wimminz yet. Give it time and he will leave you alone.

aye

MagicMarker wrote: »

I assume this guy is around the same age as you?

I'd relax a little, he's just immature and doesn't know how to handle himself around the wimminz yet. Give it time and he will leave you alone.

i would have thought that as well, until she said that the messages were disturbing.
what kind of things is he saying?
best just to ignore him. he'll get the message soon enough.

Mr. Incognito

Guards- they'll gie him a ring and warn him and get his number blocked. Quite common unfortunately.

LegacyUser

SetantaL wrote: »

Guards- they'll gie him a ring and warn him and get his number blocked. Quite common unfortunately.

And stop deleting the texts - you'll need to show something to them.

deise gal

I got a friend to write a msg that had a very clear msg and that is to go away.

I have not heard from him for around 24 hours so hopefully it's finished!


Also on the matter of what kind of msg he ws sending they were basically asking do i do sexual favours. I am clearly not that kind of girl and do not dress or have led him on in any way.

thank you for all your suggestions.:)