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I need help with this, Please i need your advice

  • 06-02-2008 10:44pm
    #1
    creepinshadow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭


    I'm in love with a girl, not one of does flings that or so common in this day and age but i really love her. And she feels the same way. but one of her best friends is her ex (a dude - obviously) and he's still in love wit her and they spend a lot of time together and i don't no how she feels towards him. Any advice would be great <<<<<<< Rewrite


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  • #2
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    A note to the OP: Please try to use correct spelling, punctuation and grammar, if possible, when posting. It will help other posters understand your issues and permit them to offer better advice.

    You say that she is in love with you. How do you know this? If she is in love with you, are both of you going out or in an exclusive relationship?


  • #3
    How Strange
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,339 ✭✭✭How Strange


    OP, can you rewrite your message because I read half of the first sentence and gave up.

    No text speak please, only English.


  • #4
    Teddi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 463 ✭✭Teddi


    jesas, THIS is what txt messaging has done to our generation..

    anyway, back on topic....

    if she says she loves you OP, what have you got to worry about? if its Luv (and not love...you know what I mean) in a friends catagory, well then she is a free agent to do as she pleases...

    but what I assume will be the majority of the replies here will say, just talk to her, thats one of the all time reasons why relationships dont work, lack of communication...

    just pull her aside sometime in the next few days, tell her how you feel and ask her where you stand in all this.


    U'll get your answer aslong as shes not a "wreak the head"...

    all the best OP,

    Teddi


  • #5
    Rb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    Unless she's specifically said she loves you, or has made gestures to suggest this (intimate contact for example) then I would 100% be considering it unrequited and that she probably still has a thing for her ex if she spends so much time with him.

    I'd really advise you start looking at other girls and getting over this one, unless as above she's shown she wants to be with you or "loves" you, then you're going to be in for a tough time when you find out it's not how you thought it was.


  • #6
    WhiteWashMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    creepinshadow wrote: »
    im in love wit a girl, not one of does flings dat or so common in dis day and age but i reali love her. nd she feels da same way. but one of her bestfriends is her ex (a dude - obviously) nd hes still in love wit her and dey spend alot of time 2geda nd i dont no how she feels towards him. Any advice wud be great

    speak english.

    and ask her, not us.


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