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Another fine mess...

  • 28-01-2008 1:05pm
    #1
    vandermeyde
    Closed Accounts Posts: 200 ✭✭


    Righto, usual stuff, met a girl pre Chrimbo, been out with her a few times since, all is good..

    now the problem, I'm a seperated father of 3. She doesn't know this yet.

    The reason being, when I first got back into the dating scene (early last year) I was quite open and upfront about it, the result of this was that I was generally given a polite no thanks. So I started not mentioning it, which was fine as most encounters I had were pretty casual so it didn't cause a problem.

    So back to the girl, started off casual, dates, phone calls, texting, email, etc. but she's looking to escalate things, and to be honest I want to as well, I've not felt this way in a long time about a girl.

    the elephant in the room of course is that I have to front-up about my family.

    I just don't know how to broach it now. Have I left it too long?


Comments

  • #2
    Mazeire
    Closed Accounts Posts: 453 ✭✭Mazeire


    Tell her ASAP. There is a very real chance that she will be angry but you can't have any relationship based on a huge lie and denying your fmaily.
    As for those other girls that was their problem not yours.


  • #3
    Dizzyblonde
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 12,110 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dizzyblonde


    It's definitely time to tell her. You've given her time to get to know a bit about you and now you've got to fill her in. If you leave it any longer it'll be like you've been lying to her.


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