Fu*k Buddies.

sidneykidney

Quite a simple question really.
Does it work. Or no not a good idea.

Plug

Apsolutly mega idea:cool:*



*once you dont get caught!

Henrik_is_God

sidneykidney wrote: »

Quite a simple question really.
Does it work. Or no not a good idea.

Quite a simple answer too I would think

Going Demented

Once you both know thats all it is.

sidneykidney

You may think so but what if one buddy gains feeling's for the other. Therein lies the problem.

Hellm0

Never had one, cant comment from experiance but in my humble opinion it could work as long as there was no jelousy involved and you didnt have any notions of it becoming something more.

Henrik_is_God

Get yourself a right minger so

Tar.Aldarion

Never had one, don't know how you would broach that topic. Heh.

6th

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

Never had one, don't know how you would broach that topic. Heh.

A polite PM might work?


Talk to you soon

AckwelFoley

Yea.. i had one.. but her face turned me off eating dinner.

Marksie

Fcuk buddies implies sex with no emotion or intimacy really.

So No, but multiple lovers, yes.

Tar.Aldarion

6th wrote: »

A polite PM might work?


Talk to you soon

But what will my lesbian fiancee think?

Evolute

They are great fun. Until the other party starts to think theres more.
Better off picking up chicks and bringing them back for a shag in my opinion

seraphimvc

why not?!

see one of the episode of Scrubs,JD and elliot....*the music*

kraggy

Mmm...not sure.

Usn't think so at all but now, well maybe.

Baudelaire

I think they're ok as long as both of you are aware that that's all it'll ever be, they go totally tits up if one of you starts to develope feelings

Overheal

I certaintly wouldn't be able for it. I'd end up attatched or something. Not that it pleases me to have to turn down sex or anything but you have to thing about your emotional well being.

Evolute

Whats this emotional well being your talking about?:p

Overheal

Evolute wrote: »

Whats this emotional well being your talking about?:p

Let me put that another way: what happens when one day you decide afterwards you want to talk and do all that relationship stuff like cuddle? Then you begin to tie in emotions and it turns into something else entirely which could very well fcuk you up depending on how it turns out: normally not how you plan.

Terry

Don't have one, but would like one.
Ladies, my inbox is open, so that you can open your b.....

My inbox is open.

Aisling(",)

No because feeling can grow from having that sorta thing and it just leaves people feeling hurt.The closeness you usually get afterwards is gone and leaves you feeling kinda unfufilled or something and its not a good thing

Baudelaire

Overheal wrote: »

I certaintly wouldn't be able for it. I'd end up attatched or something. Not that it pleases me to have to turn down sex or anything but you have to thing about your emotional well being.

I find them great for getting over breakups, at least you're not sitting at home moping about your ex, and if you're good friends you have someone you can hang around with the odd time too

Naos

F**k buddies are a great idea.

Unfortunetly they tend to go tits up(pun intended).

Dragan

Have had a couple of friends where things have gone that way and it never went bad. We're friends, we **** for a while, we stop, we're still friends. I have had the **** buddy thing work for a very long time.

Transparency is key.

Super Sidious

Mainly a drunk thing, end of night stuff... it can get a bit messy though!

6th

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

But what will my lesbian fiancee think?

She seems intelligent, she must be aware of her limitations.

Peyton Manning

6th, you dont have a picture in your sig - for the first time EVER....are you ill?

WhiteWashMan

no. the only way you will ever have casual no strongs attached sex is with a stranger.

anything else and then you get emotions from one side or the other.

constitutionus

wheres it said **** buddies cant have emotional ties. ive been friends with all mine and were still mates now.

admitedly its few and far between but once you make it clear its just sex and not love whats the problem?

just be straight from the begining and you'll be fine.

gaeilgegrinds

Had one once upon a time, both secretly fell for each other, knew it too...had to cut it...twas great while it lasted though!

Crumble Froo

yeah, it can work. depends on the people, the personal situations. totally possible. not even with just strangers/acquaintances, but with friends, so long as ye both know what you're getting into.

milli

Yeah it can work. I had one, no mind games and all that crap, very refreshing It really depends on your personal situations as narco said, I dunno if I would do it again but it was fun at the time

TerrorFirmer

Definitely doesn't work. At least, not in the ideal way you might imagine.

Reku

I'd say that it can work provided that you both are willing to back off completely should either of you meet someone. If either of you starts to develop feelings for the other pipe up immediately so you can both decide whether to try make something more of it or break it off before things get messy.

Firetrap

No. My housemate has one or two and there's nowt worse than hearing someone else having sex through the bedroom walls when you're lying all alone in your own room (sob sob)

And no, I'm not going to knock on her door and ask "Can I join?"

Baudelaire

Firetrap wrote: »

No. My housemate has one or two and there's nowt worse than hearing someone else having sex through the bedroom walls when you're lying all alone in your own room (sob sob)

And no, I'm not going to knock on her door and ask "Can I join?"

But they are obviously working for her, just because you don't like the noise doesn't mean they don't/can't work

listermint

Never works, good for about 2-3 weeks then hell opens up and you will get swallowed up. messy situation and quite difficult to get out of.

Rob_l

They dont work they turn into a trap a very hard trap to escape

There is no way to keep emotions from it eventually someone gets hurt.

:mad:
:eek:

MIN2511

No big deal!

Girl "Hey baby, how you doing? Do you wanna come over"
Boy "Sure, i would see ya in 30mins"

2 hours later............

Girl "Dude thats the f***ing door!

kittensoft1984

ive been asked in the past but have never taken the plunge!

i think that i would let emotions get in the way

Dragan

Lot of infinites being posted here.

I would simply say just because some people lack the ability to keep a dynamic relationship with someone stable doesn't mean everyone does.

It's amazing what two mature people can do.

Crumble Froo

MIN2511 wrote: »

No big deal!

Girl "Hey baby, how you doing? Do you wanna come over"
Boy "Sure, i would see ya in 30mins"

2 hours later............

Girl "Dude thats the f***ing door!

two hours later?

you need to find yourself a better buddy.

the dee

I'll like to see a breakdown of the statistics. How many of the people saying yes are male? I'd imagine males are more likely to be able to have frequent sex with someone without getting attached.

Crumble Froo

*hand up*

female.

MIN2511

the dee wrote: »

I'll like to see a breakdown of the statistics. How many of the people saying yes are male? I'd imagine males are more likely to be able to have frequent sex with someone without getting attached.

I am female btw... And i do have **** buddies!

narco...... 2hrs... Thats enough... Don't talk the talk if you can't walk the walk

thefinalstage

MIN2511 wrote: »

I am female btw... And i do have **** buddies!

narco...... 2hrs... Thats enough... Don't talk the talk if you can't walk the walk

Yeah, your dog or is it dawg?

prendy

had one in college...we both knew what it was...perfect at the end of a night's drinking!
lasted bout 2 years aswell!:D

AnonoBoy

Have one at the moment.

It seems to be working fine.

Although let's see how it goes when I tell her I want to end it this evening.

Marksie

narco wrote: »

two hours later?
.

my fingers havent even warmed up by that time .

Intimacy and feelng are all part and parcel of it between me and my partners it really isnt worth it otherwise.

thefinalstage

Marksie wrote: »

my fingers havent even warmed up by that time .

Intimacy and feelng are all part and parcel of it between me and my partners it really isnt worth it otherwise.

So you count dinner as part of the warm up?

Haven't had one sadly. But I did continously make drunken mistakes with this one girl over a few months. She wanted more, I did not.