Should I ask him out?

LegacyUser

Ok Im going unreg for this. I slept with my friends brother three weeks before Christmas and I said to him straight off that I really didn't want anyone to know about what happened. But since i haven't been able to stop thinking about him, we talk sometimes on facebook and I got a bit drunk sunday night and asked him to give me a ring sometime. He just did but I missed the call but he left a message asking me to call him back but I got his answering message too. Anyway Im sure he will ring back and i really want to ask him to meet me for a drink but Im terrified.

Ive asked blokes for their number before etc but this is a bit different because i know I will see him again and if he says no Im afraid it will make things akward with me and him and in turn with his sisters who I am very close too. Should I just bite the bullet.

Colonel_McCoy

Bite the bullet, dont live your life with any regrets, no matter how big or small! Give him a call, whats the worse can happen he says no but more likely since he called you he will say yes. At least this way you will know where you stand. Life is not to be taken in baby steps but GIANT steps. Do it!!!!!

davyjose

Whattodo07 wrote: »

Ok Im going unreg for this. I slept with my friends brother three weeks before Christmas and I said to him straight off that I really didn't want anyone to know about what happened. But since i haven't been able to stop thinking about him, we talk sometimes on facebook and I got a bit drunk sunday night and asked him to give me a ring sometime. He just did but I missed the call but he left a message asking me to call him back but I got his answering message too. Anyway Im sure he will ring back and i really want to ask him to meet me for a drink but Im terrified.

Ive asked blokes for their number before etc but this is a bit different because i know I will see him again and if he says no Im afraid it will make things akward with me and him and in turn with his sisters who I am very close too. Should I just bite the bullet.

He won't say no. For a start you already know he finds you attractive (not because he slept with you, but because he kept in touch). And even he does ... no, he just simply won't say no.

LegacyUser

Oh he just rang there and I bottled it. He must think Im a right fool now.

Rattlehead_ie

I would agree and say go for it as well.
Coming from the other side as a guy, I was kinda in the same situation, not as close as bros friend but the person was someone I would probably see again and again. I asked her out and well I got the dreaded no, not right now.

Point is I have no regets about asking her. Its a pity but I've no regrets. Then again you let the person know your interested and maybe furhter down depending on situation things might change.

Bite the Bullet.

Colonel_McCoy

its clear he likes u, ring him back

Ballerina

yea seriously he MUST like you, the only reason he would say no is because of his sibling you are friends with

is that a problem at all?like would they be mad?iv often been told its not a good idea to get with friend's brothers....



goddammit:mad:

yea go for it!and keep us posted

UnitedIrishman

It's better to regret doing than not doing, thats my motto. (Doesn't apply in the case of already being in a relationship!!)

LegacyUser

Go for it!

I've just broken up with my short term girlfriend for my childhood sweetheart - your challenge is just to pick up that phone... He's persistant he wants you!

Jesus Wept

You sleep with him, but are afraid to ask him out?
I don't get it.

Anyhow, ask him out.

Son_of_Belial

Just do it