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advice for a date

  • 25-12-2007 3:34am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok. So here is the scenario. Seeing this woman! Things are going well! Meeting her the weekend again. She likes me and I like her. The last few times I saw her were awesome! Got kissing her and cuddling and all the usuall jazz. Just wondering has anybody any tips on how to get her to want me even more? I know that might seem kinda stupid but I don't want her getting bored of me!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    What does she like? Most women like little pressies or texts just to tell her you are thinking of her... Nothing expensive, it's the thought that matters.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    iAmSoIn wrote: »
    Ok. So here is the scenario. Seeing this woman! Things are going well! Meeting her the weekend again. She likes me and I like her. The last few times I saw her were awesome! Got kissing her and cuddling and all the usuall jazz. Just wondering has anybody any tips on how to get her to want me even more? I know that might seem kinda stupid but I don't want her getting bored of me!

    If I can give you one tip its to chillax the cax for a moment. You both like each other so there's no issue really. Just treat her well, don't smother her with attention/messages but make her feel like a princess when you are together. Surprises and spontanaeity work imo. Don't spend the time second guessing yourself or you'll go and f8ck it all up before it has even started.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭geminilady


    dont worry about her getting bored of u, she obviously likes you if she wants to see u again. Good Luck!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah! Hmm Pressies! Would that be weird considering it's only my third time seeing her?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭The Hacker


    iAmSoIn wrote: »
    Ok. So here is the scenario. Seeing this woman! Things are going well! Meeting her the weekend again. She likes me and I like her. The last few times I saw her were awesome! Got kissing her and cuddling and all the usuall jazz. Just wondering has anybody any tips on how to get her to want me even more? I know that might seem kinda stupid but I don't want her getting bored of me!

    Send some more txts maybe ring her more. I dunno.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,761 ✭✭✭redzerdrog


    propose!! dont forget a diamond ring aswell


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 341 ✭✭JMCD


    Go the pictures go to a comedy show,theatre just dont involve everything around the pub and drink! And dont be to eager to text her......if she hasnt text you in a couple of hours relax and dont jump in........let her text you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭speaktofrank


    If you really like her, don't come on too strong. Leave her always wanting more, I realised this quite late but better late than never. So play it cool and appear to be interested but not overly so would be my advice


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    have you got a car? Go for a drive. I always find driving with someone you like gets to be very close while not being pushed into anything to heavy (cos you're driving). And it's fun. Maybe a drive and a meal after.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 204 ✭✭daniel3982


    Dont send her too many texts its liable to put her off I have found as she'll think you're being too serious too soon.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 575 ✭✭✭Strokesfan


    Don't people mostly want what they can't have or love the chase. Don't appear too eager and that, in my opinion, would make her want you more. (Don't act too cool though)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 330 ✭✭irishpartyboy


    I suggest making the most of the time you have off over Christmas, do things that are seasonal e.g. ice skating... and have some fun.

    I wouldn't go mad buying presents, gifts or whatever. Give the girl compliments, let her know your interested, but don't go overboard as women typically don't like someone smothering them.

    Go with the flow mate, chill at little.

    BTW the unreg nick does hint at a sense of arrogance. Women, in my experience, don't like that too much.

    Good luck.


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