Who is she?

johnrd

Ok so heres the story, ive fallen for this girl but i have no idea who she is! shes come into my job a couple of times and weve exhanged glances, then yesterday i seen her waiting outside a college at the bus stop, i cant stop thinkin of her!!! is there anything i can do?

challengemaster

yes, the next time you see her, say something to her.

niceirishfella

johnrd wrote: »

Ok so heres the story, ive fallen for this girl but i have no idea who she is! shes come into my job a couple of times and weve exhanged glances, then yesterday i seen her waiting outside a college at the bus stop, i cant stop thinkin of her!!! is there anything i can do?

sure there is, and this time of year is the perfect time to do it...........

ask around at work who she is?
find out who she is - by hook or by crook!

and then send her a xmas card or approach her yourself the next time you see her, and just walk up and say hi.
go for it, you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.

Best of luck.

NIF

LegacyUser

challengemaster wrote: »

yes, the next time you see her, say something to her.

Yeah, and not something dopey like "hi" or "I think you're beautiful". Ask her for her opinion on something (like a headline in your newspaper or an ad at the bus stop).

Piste

How can you have fallen for her when you've only seen her a handful of times and never spoken to her?

Kintarō Hattori

Piste wrote: »

How can you have fallen for her when you've only seen her a handful of times and never spoken to her?

That can so happen. Have you never experianced love at first sight?

worded

Its not stalking if you only follow her two blocks.

Altar_Ego_Boy

eo980 wrote: »

That can so happen. Have you never experianced love at first sight?

love at first sight doth not exist.

Altar_Ego_Boy

johnrd wrote: »

Ok so heres the story, ive fallen for this girl but i have no idea who she is! shes come into my job a couple of times and weve exhanged glances, then yesterday i seen her waiting outside a college at the bus stop, i cant stop thinkin of her!!! is there anything i can do?

dude wait a couple of days and youll forget about her

Time Magazine

eo980 wrote: »

That can so happen. Have you never experianced love at first sight?

She's about 11.

OP, stalky stalky. Well, that, or just ask "Do I recognise you from somewhere?" next time. It can be a good conversation starter.

worded

johnrd wrote: »

then yesterday i seen her waiting outside a college at the bus stop, i cant stop thinkin of her!!! is there anything i can do?

Have you considered hiring a wedding bus and circling the area til you see her again?

Jack B. Badd

eo980 wrote: »

Have you never experianced love at first sight?

Otherwise known as infatuation... Usually based on nothing more substantial than looks.

OP, if you think you like her talk to her but tone it down a bit. Most people get a bit freaked by other people who claim to have fallen for them when they've never even spoken to them before. It's only considered romantic in the movies.

wanabehome

Get to know who she is,trust me,12 years form now you'll be reading a similar message as yours on a message board and the memories of the girl(in my case guy)whose name you never knew will all come flodding back.

pow wow

wanabehome wrote: »

Get to know who she is,trust me,12 years form now you'll be reading a similar message as yours on a message board and the memories of the girl(in my case guy)whose name you never knew will all come flodding back.

Exactly! I still have a soft spot for a courier who came in to ask directions years ago....and he is still the best looking man I have ever seen.

Marksie

Worded: read the charter on off topic unhelpful posting.

prod_igy

Walk into her, and knock her books to the ground........works in the movies!?

spinandscribble

eo980 wrote: »

That can so happen. Have you never experianced love at first sight?

Piste wrote: »

How can you have fallen for her when you've only seen her a handful of times and never spoken to her?

Jack B. Badd wrote: »

Otherwise known as infatuation... Usually based on nothing more substantial than looks.

infatuations a nice word for downright shallowness with a dash of fantasy. i've a mate who "falls in love" every few weeks. funnily enough its never average or ugly looking girls.:rolleyes:

i have to say i've never met a woman ever claim love at first sight.

grand gestures like cards and flowers and declarations of love only work in the films, if a guy tried that stuff with me and i'd never spoken to them, no matter how goodlooking or charming he was alarm bells would ring.

However op if this is new to you, ask her her name next time you meet her, have a little chat. tell her you've seen her in your shop, flirt. she'll come to you again in the shop if she fancies you.

ryoishin

When I was younger and worked in a supermarket on the hot food counter the lads used to remember what girls they liked ordered so the next time they came up theyd say "chicken roll is nt it" before the girl could say it. It got the ball rolling. and no where in Ireland is so big that you would nt bump into her in a pub or something. You try something simular.

Victor

OP, if you see her next time at work, offer to help her and give her your name, shake her hand if appropriate.

If you see her on the street, say "Hi, haven't I seen you in ......... - I work in the ..... department, I'm John." Ask her how she is.

Altar_Ego_Boy wrote: »

love at first sight doth not exist.

But one can have a very good feeling about the potential relationship.

Altar_Ego_Boy

spinandscribble wrote: »

infatuations a nice word for downright shallowness with a dash of fantasy. i've a mate who "falls in love" every few weeks. funnily enough its never average or ugly looking girls.:rolleyes:

I suppose you can only be genuinely in love with a woman if shes pug-ugly! :rolleyes:

spinandscribble

lol!
you can lust after someone but theres no way from just looking at a lad or a girl you can tell if you'd be good in a relationship together or fall in love in that instant.

op what do you think you'll do?

johnrd

spinandscribble wrote: »

op what do you think you'll do?

hopefully when i see her again, i will try say something to her