What should i do ?

xXxnaoisexXx

The other night at a friends house walked out of the room for a min and came back in to see one of my 'friend' sitting beside my boyfriend with her leg practically over him and her face in his and she was messing poking him, he looked well kinda scared. I just got so angry so i walked out of the room, After that found out she has liked him for ages, Should i say something to her? This might seem immature but I'm just confused with the whole situation.
Thanks

Wibbs

Well he should say something about it for a start. Did he? If he didn't why not? Did you bring it up with him? On your side I would be cool about it and say nothing for the moment. If he laughed it off and left her then fine.

IamBeowulf

Remember its tricky for him cos youre friends and he doesnt wanna cause a rift between you...and he doesnt want you to have to pick sides.

Just ask him, why was your friend all over him. And be nice cs its probably nothing to do with him, from what you said.

xXxnaoisexXx

No he didn't say anything because he isn't really like that like he didn't know she was flirting with him he was just watching TV and she came over. Its her i dont know what to do with like i don't particularly want a friend who fancies my boyfriend and is all over him.Harsh? =S

IamBeowulf

Tell her the friendship is over if shes gonna be like that.

xXxnaoisexXx

Advice taken.
Cheers

diamondp

oh yes confront her. dont let that go. you dont have to start an argument or anything just pull her aside tell her what you saw and tell her if she was a real friend she wouldnt have done that or put your bf in that position. what did your bf say? have you spoken to him about it yet?

xXxnaoisexXx

Well when i said it to her there she said i was being paronoid and start gettin all defensive and swearing and all so tbh im sick of her now, i don't really want a friend who doesn't care about my feelings. He told me that she was being a 'dope' and not to mind her and that she is always annoying him like that but he has no feelings for her what so ever.

dudara

He's not going to see it as being that serious, and don't be annoyed with him over that. Friends try to respect other people's boundaries, and you should remind your friend (in a nice manner) about that.

diamondp

dudara wrote: »

He's not going to see it as being that serious, and don't be annoyed with him over that. Friends try to respect other people's boundaries, and you should remind your friend (in a nice manner) about that.

+1

if it was me and im not trying to tell you what to do BUT me personally i wouldnt have anything to do with her again. when you said it to her she should have apologized not started getting ratty with you. also if she was a normal human being she would have been embarrassed over her actions

xXxnaoisexXx

Ah yeah but she is one of those girls who wears low tops and flirts with anything that moves, i have been with him 8months now and this isn't the first time she has been like this with him.No time for her anymore, Thanks for the advice guys.

l3LoWnA

xXxnaoisexXx wrote: »

Ah yeah but she is one of those girls who wears low tops and flirts with anything that moves, i have been with him 8months now and this isn't the first time she has been like this with him.No time for her anymore, Thanks for the advice guys.

Just because she is "one of those girls" doesn't mean you should expect OR accept this behaviour. She is not your friend. Regardless of her reasons or excuses, she was blantently trying it on with your boyfriend as soon you left the room. She's obviously jealous and wants what you have or else she's massively insecure, and one of tose girls who needs to know that everyone wants her (this is no excuse however, for hurting your feelings). I can't stand people like that. She should have stayed on her seat and not went near your man! I've got "mates" like her and the sooner you realise that you're better off without them the better (I have yet to shake the remaining few from my life, I keep giving them one more chace....) :rolleyes:

xXxnaoisexXx

Yeah and now today she has moved to his school, ironic aye =/.
Where not friends anymore i told her im sick of her, now just see whats shes like to him in school.=/
Thanks anyways .