what do i do??

cormthechippy

right, here's the story. i'm sharing a house at the moment and i've really fallen for one of the girls living here. the very first time i saw her i thought she was beautiful. i feel i get on great with her and we have a great laugh together. shes about two and a half years older than me.. i'm almost 22. i think she has a fair idea that i like her, she must. one of the other housemates said she could see the vibes and chemistry between us. she's an absolute stunner. whenever shes in a bad mood, i always some how make her laugh and real chatty.we always seem to agree on the same matters and share common interests. the chemistry is killer at times tho, really tense. just feel like grabbin her! i'm not just lookin to score her in the sack, i genuinely have strong feelings for her. i'm really not sure what to do??? i have a feeling that she might feel somewhat the same...just have that feeling..

i'm afraid to go for it though...because if i got rejected, i'd have to still live here.. but on the other hand, i've only a month left in this house. so maybe wait until i move out and then talk to her?

i'm just really unsure what to do...do i just approach her and tell her my feelings? any advice would be greatly appreciated.

ShaneU

I wouldnt approach her and tell her your feelings, you'd come across a bit of a sap, just throw the lips on her on some drunken night and see what happens, and if she slaps you at least you can say "hey I was drunk" sure you're moving out in a month anyway so you've got nothing to lose really.

ixus

Because if you got rejected, you'd still have to live with her, for a month, over christmas.....I'm guessing over the next four weeks, you might spend two in her company because of the time of year.

You don;t have to make it a drunk thing. Though you could all go for a couple of drinks for end of year/leaving thing. If you don't do anything you're a fool and you're right hand will never forgive you...

Waste not want not!

By the way, i'm drunk:p

ShaneU

ixus wrote: »

Waste not want not!

Lol

Carrigart Exile

why not just say something simple like 'I am going to miss you over christmas' (on the assumption one of you will be at folks) and take it from there.

gandalf

Oh just go for it. What's the worst that can happen a month of misery and awkwardness compared to a lifetime of wondering what if.........

NIKE!

thebiggestjim

ShaneU wrote: »

I wouldnt approach her and tell her your feelings, you'd come across a bit of a sap, just throw the lips on her on some drunken night and see what happens, and if she slaps you at least you can say "hey I was drunk" sure you're moving out in a month anyway so you've got nothing to lose really.

Spot on

Umaro

Go for it on New Years Eve - what better opportunity to kiss her, and then if she feels the same way things should progress from there.

Storm_rages

Go for it of course!

supertramp

Umaro wrote: »

Go for it on New Years Eve - what better opportunity to kiss her, and then if she feels the same way things should progress from there.

Christmas is the best time for love, with everyone in good moods. If she is a stunner she won't be single for long.....

cormthechippy

cheers for all the feedback folks, appreciate it