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leaving work... want to keep in touch with girl

  • 09-12-2007 12:09am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hello. I feel silly writing this (and am going a bit red even! how sad :o). I'm finishing in my parttime job on Monday, after only being there a few weeks. but in that time i've gotten along well with this girl. im not sure if im into her sexually or not, but we certainly have a great laugh and a good rapport, and ive even spent the last few days looking forward to going to work (we work together 1 day a week only) so that i can see her! :eek: how strange.

    Anyway, i dont have her contact details, and would never see her other than in work, so im looking for suggestions on how/excuses for why to ask her for her number, MSN, or somethin, or any way to keep in contact... without being too obvious, and while trying to be as casual as possible.

    I feel stupid for writing this, but since its a few paragraphs long, thats too much effort spent to just delete it.

    thanks for any help


Comments

  • #2
    Petey2006
    Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭Petey2006


    Dude, just ask her for her email or number. Be honest and say you'd like to keep in touch. It doesn't have to sound like you want to jump her bones or anything. If you both got on, it shouldn't be anything unusual to want to stay in contact. It would be very odd if she said 'no, i don't want to keep in touch.' So just ask! You don't need an excuse!


  • #3
    Xcom2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 520 ✭✭✭Xcom2


    Just ask for her number,tell her you want to organise a christmas get together for some of your work buddies.

    X


  • #4
    k-a-t-e
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭k-a-t-e


    Just be honest say you've really like worked with her and had a great laugh with her and would like to keep in touch. The rest is up to her.

    I did this with a guy I liked at work and things turned out rosy. At the time wasn't into his sexually, as you put it, but he said it was really nice to hear that I'd enjoyed working with him. At the very least you'll make her day :D even if you dont stay in touch.

    Good luck tell us what happens tomorrow


  • #5
    supertramp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 241 ✭✭supertramp


    Simply, ask. Straight out.

    I was in the same situation, and was worrying myself sick on how to ask, until she asked me anyway on the last day.

    Just ask! Do it!


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