sister talking to ex boyfriend on the internet weird ?

hel_hev

on was on a social site , and looked at a fella that i used to go out withs profile .. and seen msgs from my own sister a few weeks ago there ...

i didnt end well with this gut, every1 knows i hate him & i think hes a creep...

anyway it was like

oh how are you and you can have my love anytime .. then xxx and hearts ..

shes not going out with him, im sure and i certainly do not like the guy anymore
but she never told me she was talking to him online .. i already sort of dont like her personality , if we were not related we would nt be friends ...

this makes me think even less of her

what would you think if your sister was sending msgs like that to a ex ????

Fanny Cradock

hel_hev wrote: »

i already sort of dont like her personality , if we were not related we would nt be friends ...

this makes me think even less of her

Difficult teenage years

It's odd that you feel the need to do so much snooping in light of your odious words. Let your sister get on with her own life.

Two peices of advice:

1) Grow up
2) Stop using txt speak

You'll go far

Bottle_of_Smoke

Sounds like you don't get on. She probably knew flirting with him on bebo would piss you off. He probably knew flirting with her would piss you off/make you jealous.

No point saying anything, then she'll know & probably just ride him. Think parents trying to stop teenagers going out & in the process push them closer together.

IrishMike

Fanny Cradock wrote: »

1) Grow up
2) Stop using txt speak

You'll go far

Short, sweet and very apt.
She is her own person, not really your concern who she sends messages to on Bebo.
Stop snooping and move on

hel_hev

well i wasnt really snooping , i m sure loadsa people look at people they know i the internet, it wasnt like i hacked into someone emails or something...
on those site you see picture of d people who recently sent messages to the person your looking at .. i was suprised to see a big pic of sister the minute i open the site and what she was saying ...

i said the guy was a creep too like being ringing me from a withheld number and hanging up and stuff for a while till i found out it was him !! :eek:
the sister knows this, plus when i stopped going out with him i found out he was with other girls too...

the point i was trying to make is i think it was bad of sis to be so friendly to someone who was like this with me ,,,

is everyone honestly saying they wouldnt care if their brother/sister/friend was talking to a creepy ex behind their back ??

Jack B. Badd

hel_hev wrote:

the point i was trying to make is i think it was bad of sis to be so friendly to someone who was like this with me ,,,

You've already said you "sort of don't like her personally". Maybe the feeling's mutual and she doesn't give a damn about your opinion of her... Just because she's your sister doesn't automatically mean she's obligion to do what you perceive as right by you. Why do you care anyway? You don't like either of these people. Leave 'em off :rolleyes:

Storm_rages

yea, i don't think i would be too happy if my sister (if i had one) was talking to an ex who did not treat me right. But it all depends on how long you were with the ex and how much your sister knows! Either way its not that big a deal, maybe your ex and your sister just get on better! (and as you don't want him, does it really matter?)

girlwitcurls

omg!!my ex treated me like crap and now me or my family dont give him the time of day. i think thats totally horrible what they are doing. cant even imagine how i would react. i think you should try talking to your sister but remember she is family and you mightnt get on right now but she will always be blood.

Nevyn

It happens I know several people who went on to marry thier sisters leavings as it where.

Sleepy

"The devils give you your family but the gods let you choose your friends."

Evangelion

You should confront her. No matter how much you hate your ex and your sister, there's a line she should cross