Falling for friend...

LegacyUser

Im in second yr college now and on the first day of first year, i got talking to a girl. We quickly became very close friends. Just for verificaton, I'm male. We were inseperable and really got on, but no real sexual attraction. Anyway, recently she has become very flirty and touchy-feely with me. Because she was such a good mate, I was a little shocked. But then i became kinda turned on by it and now I'm actually falling for her.

We are part of a pretty close-knit group of friends and we see each other everyday pretty much.

The thing is, if I act on my impulses and things go sour, thats a really good friendship wasted. But what if it all goes well..? we know we get along, so maybe it'll be good.

any advice?
thanx for reading

Le Rack

go for it, exact same thing happened me last year, we just got closer and closer, people had us down to get married n all, lol, yeah, we were together a bit, things didn't work out, we were kinda friendly after still, but huge fights broke out between us, we didn't talk for a month or so, and now we're best mates again, if you're good enough friends, even if things go sour you'll get over it.

Overheal

diddums I say go for it - she seems to be signalling to you she wants to give it a go.

Feelgood

Look at it this way....you like her obviously.....

Hate to break it to you though in a few years your gonna be sitting or lying even in a wooden box under a big pile of worms and some muck. Now you can take a chance and possibly find a person that you would like to spend the rest of your life with or you can do nothing and always wonder if maybe she was the one.

Grow a pair of balls and go for it dude, you never know unless you try.....

Le Rack

exactly, regret what you don't do not what you do...or is it the other way round...I can't remember but def go for it!

mayordenis

go for it you actually won't regret it if it went wrong you will hugely regret it if you don't, anyway nothing ventured, nothing gained.