Problems with women

Macracken

when it comes to knowing a woman likes me and i fancy her, i just seem to lose all confidence and dont even have the courage to have a conversation with her 1 on 1.

This is a real problem for me because i really like this girl and have not showed her that i like her too.

any help is grateful, thanks.

cowzerp

Best thing is to just talk to her as a friend and get to know her, then let her know your interseted-sounds easy i know!!

TomMc

Relax, be yourself and try to humour her at the same time, avoid having a serious manner. Tease but do not insult her. Easier said than done. Have a carefree attitude whether she bites or not, plenty more fish in the sea or else you can end up trying to hard, which does not help your cause one bit.

ShawnRaven

Just be yourself. Kick back and play it from there. After about an hour you'll get the general vibe and idea of where it will stem from there...

... unless she plays hard to get, in which case, hang in there!
VR!

Macracken

apart from all the dirty texts and what not. i think she plays hard to get when i meet her in person.
she was texting me all week asking me to go to a particular bar. when i got there i was talking to her a bit and then didnt see her for a while, i was tired and went home after a while. she was asking all my mates where i had gone. txted her this morning apologizing for leaving early, but no reply. think ive blown my chance some how?

i think maybe i feel intimidated somehow by very attractive women

ansionnachclist

She might feel that you've ditched her at the moment.
Best thing you can do is tell her why you did and how you feel.
By text if yah like... its the modern age but in person would be nicer.

If she says no... well, congrats thats the hard part over and there's plenty more fish in the sea. If she says Yes... well then congrats man.

Overheal

You could take a Cold-Plunge outlook on it and just start by saying Sorry but you make me really nervous cos I really Like You and im scared ill fcuk that up somehow. [I assume thats the case, it works for me]

Then once you're in the pool, swimming should come naturally.

SarahSassy

Try not to be so hard on yourself. A lot of people have the same problem and from your post I am wondering if the girl herself does too...?? She is very brave on an impersonal footing (i.e. texting) but may have been a bit shy when she met up with you...

Its hard to tell if you have blown your chance or not. Did she leave you to fend for yourself in the bar or did you have friends there as well? Its really up to her to reply to you now and I would wait and see what comes from her end. TBH, you did nothing wrong. Good luck.