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LegacyUser

im currently in college and have gotten to know this girl. We hit it off very quickly and over the last month or so have spent a lot of time together. At the time I was aware that she had a boyfriend (reasonably new) but was told by friends that it wasn't going to work out and the whole distance thing was a problem. Anyway, in all the time we spent together she never once mentioned him. We spent a couple of nights together (i.e. slept in the same bed), nothing happened, just talking but as usual rumours about us started. As time passed on I began to like this girl more and more but was keeping my distance to a certain extent as I didnt wanted to get mixed up in her previous relationship. A while ago, she broke up with him and once again we're spending time together, even more probably. Everyone thinks there's something going on between us but as of now there isn't. anyway, i'm fairly shy to say the least but managed to tell her the other night that I liked her and she responded by saying that she liked me too and we'd see what happens. I was going to move in for the kiss but got the sense it wasn't the right time? Now I feel anytime is awkward and I don't know how to go about it???

bronte

You're in a good position...however, the fact that she didn't mention her boyfriend when she had one stands out for me.
I hope she wouldn't do the same to you if you were a couple.
If you want to be with her just play it by ear and listen to your heart.

XJR

Unwotdreg wrote: »

I was going to move in for the kiss but got the sense it wasn't the right time? Now I feel anytime is awkward and I don't know how to go about it???

4 voddies and a rophypnol it will all be ok !

LegacyUser

If she said she likes you too, then your in there. Just wait for the right time and it should be ok

Beruthiel

XJR wrote: »

4 voddies and a rophypnol it will all be ok !

Banned for a week.
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Reku

Well you've both said that you like each other so that's the first hurdle, as for the first kiss remember that she has as much say in it as you do so the fact that she didn't push forward would imply that maybe she also didn't yet feel it was the right time. Let things go as they will, it'll happen eventually, and there's no rush. Would you rather have the right build up to it or just get it over with and think "meh..."?

Beruthiel

Unwotdreg wrote: »

Now I feel anytime is awkward and I don't know how to go about it???

Ask her out on a date and take it from there.

biko

She likes you (imo). Now ask her out and this time kiss her.

Qui audet adipiscitur

ACW

I would say you are in a wonderful posistion. You know you like each other, that terrible hurdle has been past, I agree with Beruthiel and biko. Ask the young lady out, be nice, don't go out expecting the whole deal and not even a kiss, go out with the intent of having a nice night together, that way you can be pleasently suprised.

Good luck and enjoy it! (bewear the her sharing beds with men thing!)