Halloween sadness

LegacyUser

Just need to vent something, last year was at a halloween house party , this exact night and all my friends were there + my girlfriends friends. Now this year they are all gone off different routes. Gone to college, etc + me and girlfriend are no more either.

The friends I do have now (Some the same) all seemed to be either staying in with their girlfriends or having quiet nights in (college or work tomorrow), 1 or 2 went to town the others doing nothing basically or I'm not in contact with them any more. So I spent the night alone jus watchin rubbish on tv. It saddens me that this time just 1 short year ago I was at a great party gettin drunk surrounded by all my friends and girlfriend and this year was the exact opposite - Nothing-ness. Thanks for readin.

c - 13

All that can be said here man is that times and people change, we cant always have it all, but things will pick up again.

We all get depressed at times thinking about the laughs we had in the past but cant/havent had in a long time. The best way through it is to give yourself something to look forward too.

Why dont you call all your friends from the halloween party you mention and organise a pre-xmas session. You'll reignite all your old contacts and hopefully recapture the same craic that you had ?

star-pants

Hey Op - it is a bit mental when you see such a difference in your life.
Last Hallowe'en I spent the whole w/e down with my then boyfriend - parties, great craic, hanging out with his friends and family.
This year - far from it, myself and that guy are long time split, and have had another failed relationship since then too. Other friends seemed to be taking quiet nights with partners etc. I ended up just going to a friends house and watching a dvd.

It's hard sometimes to rebuild social lives - I'm still trying to rebuild mine. But take c - 13s advice there and try and get all your friends for a get-together / session. Could be a lot of fun.
x

biko

Maybe next Halloween you'll look back at this one and laugh, while at a party with friends and new gf.
Things change. It's ok to be sad now but things will get better again.

nialo

Was in the exact same position last nite myself. Very boring nite in watching the tv. Just felt wrong for halloween. Things will come around to a party again.. hopefully.

I spent last night with 4 friends playing the Playstation 3, was home and in bed by 11! Everyone had work/college presentations for tomorrow. U win some u lose some. Things will pick up.