get over him?

LegacyUser

ok i'll keep this as short as i can basically, A while ago I met a guy through a friend (hes her flatmate) We seemed to get along well together, and he was always asking her about me, if i had a boyfriend etc, he told her he fancied me, this went on for quiet some while and eventually one night we ended up kissing. Then the following day it was like it had never happened, he started getting very 'cool' with me all of a sudden. I was hurt by it as i really liked him but tried not to let it show. Anyway I could deal with the fact he didn't like me, but when we went out (we've the same group of friends) he'd deliberately flirt with girls in front of me (I actually caught him looking at me to see if i was watching). Whenever I go over to my friends house he'll start talking (to his other flatmate) about all these girls he'd met at the weekend or whatever loud enough so i can hear them, its like hes trying to hurt me, Its gotten to the point where i hate going to see my friend because it hurts too much to see him, how can i get over him when i have to see him every second day, and flirting in front of me whenever we go out?? Its not the fact that he doesn't like me i can deal with that, i just can't understand why hes going out of his way to hurt me ?

Cathmandooo

He sounds like a complete idiot, dust yourself off and think NEXT! Don't stoop to his level and try your best to ignore his bragging when in your friends house. Be confident around him and be glad it went no further than it did, he doesnt sound like someone you wanna be with, you've had a lucky escape!

Lawless_Samurai

Cathooo wrote: »

He sounds like a complete idiot, dust yourself off and think NEXT! Don't stoop to his level and try your best to ignore his bragging when in your friends house. Be confident around him and be glad it went no further than it did, he doesnt sound like someone you wanna be with, you've had a lucky escape!

Yeah he sounds like a prick alright. Cathooo is right in saying don't stoop to his level but if if it doesn't bother you to stoop then the next time he is bragging, flirting etc... Kick him in the balls! That way the next time he gets you down all you have to do is remember his face after you kicked him and smile :):)

All in all though he is a prat

humanji

Seems to me that he's taken the phrase "Treat them mean and keep them keen" a little too much to heart. He's trying to get your attention, and if you give up and make the move on him and (god forbid) start going out with him, just be prepared for non-stop mindgames. Forget about the idiot and move on. Get a boyfriend and make out with him over at your friends house! That'll teach him :P

l3LoWnA

hurtgirl!

Do you completely trust your friend that lives with this guy?

Here I go, suspicoius as always, but is this friend female or male? Could there have been any jealousy there?

It sounds as if this guy likes you, he had enquired about you etc....I can't understand why he's actly so badly - posisbly he is just a total pr1ck but would your friend have warned him off you by saying you were crazy about him or anything?

if that's not possible I'd forget him, he's just a complete fool who doesn't know what he's missing out on. you need to get out and meet someone new and then go round to his place and discuss YOUR weekend on front of him You seem to care alot, maybe he picked up on this....so get yourself out there, get yourself over him and things could change dramatically for you!!!

McGinty

Hi

I am afraid this man is enjoying playing head**** unfortunately, he knows you are into him, he enjoys winding you up for to boost his seriously flagging ego, I don't know if he is meaning to hurt you but he is enjoying having your attention too much to stop, personally I would view this behaviour as immature, Im sorry it does not help with the feelings you have but can only add the old cliche that time will heal, best of luck

*tOpLaSs

Sounds to me like he's going to extremes to try and make you desperate for more or something, but has completely f***ed things up..
I'd say just move on, do you really want to end up with a guy who treats you like this?