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Friend Issue

  • 16-10-2007 2:53pm
    #1
    SheenaD
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30 ✭


    I have been invited to a mates halloween party in a few weeks, thing is she has excluded certain people from coming as she has issues with them herself ! One of which is a close mate of mine ! i have to go to this party as i really fancy a lad that is going should i go to the party and not tell my mate or just tell her out straight even though i know she will be well peeved of with me ?


Comments

  • #2
    SheenaD
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30 ✭SheenaD


    By the way i am a newbie to the site so hello :D


  • #3
    Lil' Smiler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,475 ✭✭✭Lil' Smiler


    Just tell her, it's not your party to invite her to. If it's such a big deal then her and the party host can try sort out their issues


  • #4
    guest
    Closed Accounts Posts: 82 ✭✭guest


    Tell her out straight. if you really wanna meet the guy then you gotta go. She'll probably be wondering where you're going that night anyway, so no point in lying.


  • #5
    biko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Tell your mate that you want to go, not because the other friend is closer but that you really to hook up with that fella.
    It's gonna come out anyway if you go to the party so you may as well be straight with everyone.


  • #6
    cas91
    Closed Accounts Posts: 75 ✭✭cas91


    i agree.. honesty will work out best in the long term beleive me.. from past experiences I know!!


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  • #7
    misswex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭misswex


    You should just tell your friend the truth. The issue has nothing to do with you, you have just been invited to a party that you want to go to. I can understand you will feel a bit awkward about telling your other friend. The worst thing you could do is not go to the party as the girl will know the reason you are not going which would then put you in the middle of an arguement and she would feel you took the other girls side so just go to the party and get your man :)


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