sleeping in bed with boys

lauren_f

hey,
should girls of 22 be allowed to share a bed with boys in their parents house? random boys or their bf or does it make a difference?!

feylya

Parents' house, parents' rules.

Sabre0001

Up to the parents really - you could try a rational discussion with them but if they don't like it, you have to put up with it.......Or get your own place.

Their house, their rules!

meglome

feylya wrote: »

Parents' house, parents' rules.

Very true it's their house, you want to do you own thing then get your own place. Whilst saying that my own parents were very open with my two brothers. They got some... emm... training... from me before that

Oriel

No.

pretty-in-pink

Long term boyf, most parents are ok with. If you don't like it, move out. You're 22, not 17

Mazeire

Up to them. For example if there's younger brothers and sisters around it might not be a good idea.

BaZmO*

meglome wrote: »

Whilst saying that my own parents were very open with my two brothers. They got some... emm... training... from me before that

:eek: Ya what now?

January

It wouldn't be allowed in my house, it's up to the parents really, I shared a room and always stayed in the boyfriends untill we moved in together.

As long as you live under their roof you live by their rules!

Zulu

Personal issue how now exacly?

Lil' Smiler

Why would you want to bring randomers back to your parents house??

Meh.. not my sorta thing. Yer man gets up for a pee in the morning and bumps into your dad.. awkward!!


Stay in the boyfriends house.. (if there is one in this situation)

Goodshape

At 22 I wouldn't have thought it'd be a problem. So long as you're not going crazy in there every other night.

pretty-in-pink wrote: »

You're 22, not 17

Exactly.

Lil' Smiler

Very true... unless you're riding like mad and bringing back randomers all the time.

Most people won't take kindly to someone being in their house that they don't know/trust


My parents have never had a problem with my brother or i having our partners stay over although it would obviously be a different matter if it was just randomers.. not something I'd do anyway.

Can you not just say to them that you're 22 and an adult and in a "loving relationship" sort of thing?

someothername

im 26 , im going out with my gf for 7 yrs now and wouldnt stay in the same bed in her or my parents house.... their house their rules.

Marksie

How is this a presonal issue for you OP?

How Strange

I'm doubting that this is a PI for the OP. She has about four threads open at the moment on this forum and each of them are general questions.

azezil

I must have the most liberal parents in the world, my parents attitude is if you're going to be sleeping together anyway, they'd rather it be somewhere they know you're safe, my mother even offered me her bed once, which was really gross and creepy... turned me off sex for a week

Anywho, I guess my parents ROCK ^_^

Firetrap

I wouldn't like my parents to hear me going at it in the next room. That's just sooo wrong :eek:

gcgirl

my parents including my gran never had a problem with my ex bf staying over where are you suppose to do it ? in the back of a car in some dodgy forest? i think most parents that have a not under my roof policy should rethink it

Elessar

gcgirl wrote: »

my parents including my gran never had a problem with my ex bf staying over where are you suppose to do it ? in the back of a car in some dodgy forest? i think most parents that have a not under my roof policy should rethink it

Come back when you've had kids of your own. To most parents, the idea of their children having sex, even if they are teenagers/adults is not something they particularly like. I doubt many young ones here will be so liberal when the reality of it sets in with their own kids.

gcgirl

Elessar wrote: »

Come back when you've had kids of your own. To most parents, the idea of their children having sex, even if they are teenagers/adults is not something they particularly like. I doubt many young ones here will be so liberal when the reality of it sets in with their own kids.

sorry but i have 3 kids of my own now and this was years ago i do come from a liberal family and was thought that sex was for enjoyment i have 2 girls and a boy and if the kids when their in their 20's are stil living at home i will have no problem with them bringing home their bf's/gf

Zulu

Elessar wrote: »

Come back when you've had kids of your own. To most parents, the idea of their children having sex, even if they are teenagers/adults is not something they particularly like. I doubt many young ones here will be so liberal when the reality of it sets in with their own kids.

I was just about to say, if I had kids/ever had kids, I would be working under the ignorant "didn't think about it and it doesn't happen" premise, where my children would remain virgins until their wedding night. Certainly no stunts would be permitted under my roof. Ignorance can be bliss.

Dudess

I just wouldn't do it anyway. In my parents' house with them there? Weird.
As for bringing back a guy for a one-night stand... now that would be just ****ed up.

Vegeta

azezil wrote: »

I must have the most liberal parents in the world, my parents attitude is if you're going to be sleeping together anyway, they'd rather it be somewhere they know you're safe, my mother even offered me her bed once, which was really gross and creepy... turned me off sex for a week

Anywho, I guess my parents ROCK ^_^

My mam did the very same, they just got a new bed and were going away for the weekend. She knew we were having friends over so she told me to sleep in their new bed and let my friends stay in mine

She told me go easy on it and not to break it

My mam is a legend