What would you do

Spoony2

Ok

I'm just back from the uk there's a girl over there who said she will come and visit me in Ireland.

any way i tired to talk to her the other day on msn and she completely ignored me which don't really bother me all that much..


what's bothering me is the fact that she said shed come over but, i dont know
what's happening im not being a control freak or anything but its nice to know what the hell is going on ive only another 5 weeks and im out of Ireland and if she aint coming over i can go sooner.

what would you guys do

i was thinkin of emailing her and just saying

hey

are you coming over if not cool eather way would you mind be condiserate enough to tell me what your doing. because if your not i can leave ireland sooner.

Keano

Had you been in a relationship with her over there for long? If not then I wouldn't get too hung up... Plenty more fish in the sea!

Spoony2

Where firend's is all.. im just faustrated because if i new what was happening i could plan what im doing and I would like to sea her i can actuly have a conversaion with this girl which is greta because most women think im eather crazy or ive banged my head way to many times (true fractured skull ) but any way i just wanna know if that makes any sence.

and hell yeah to more fish in the sea

Dudess

People often off-handedly say they'll come and visit - and they just never think of it. No harm meant. We're all guilty of it. I certainly wouldn't take it badly.

Spoony2

Dudess wrote: »

People often off-handedly say they'll come and visit - and they just never think of it. No harm meant. We're all guilty of it. I certainly wouldn't take it badly.

Oh im not takeing it to harm it just that i can gte out of ireland quicker i meen she wanted me to go away with her this winter and i just couldnt not for a lack of trying eather and when she found that out she was a bit upset it think...:( becasuie i do and still want to go way with her its just i couldnt find a job over there , well didnt know where...

Pinker

So why can't you just ask her?

Spoony2

Pinker wrote: »

So why can't you just ask her?

tha'st what i want to do. Only i want to make shore i dont come off sounding like an ignorent ******** I have a tendaency to go in guns blazeing curesing fing and blinding,and i want to keep my cool and i dont wanna sound like I fancy the pants of which i sorta do but at the same time i could take it or leave it. (im not just saying that ) I just wanna know if shes comeing or going.

Lil' Smiler

What about something along the lines of

Hey,

How are you? I hope you're well. I was just thinking about what we had talked about in regards to you coming over to visit. It'd be great to see you but if you decide against it, it's no biggy!

Sam Vimes

Spoony2 wrote: »

Ok

would you mind be condiserate enough to tell me what your doing.

if you don't want to sound ignorant, don't send that. It implies she's not being considerate. I would be pissed off if someone sent that to me.

send something like "hey could you let me know if you're going to be coming over to ireland before i go. Its just that if you're not coming i can head off sooner"

with regard to ignoring you on msn, maybe she was away from the computer?

Dave147

Before you do anything.. Invest in a spellchecker. My god!

Spoony2

Dave147 wrote: »

Before you do anything.. Invest in a spellchecker. My god!

well pray to your god then i dont have one.

as for spelling i suffer from add and dyslexia you try spelling properly then belevae me its no simple task :rolleyes:Muppet....

and if you can't say anything decent dont say it at all

But i suppose a random knock over the internet will make you feel better...