Friendly advice, anyone?

DerekSmalls

19 year old who doesn't have much experience with girls meets girl, thinks she's great, doesn't know what to do!! Any help/advice?

Black Swan

Get phone number? Ask her out on a date? Dinner and a movie?

Victor

Treat her like a human being. Make sure she knows you exist. Say "hi", ask her how she is today, chat ... Get phone number? Ask her out on a date? Dinner and a movie?

AckwelFoley

Take her out for a pint.

txt_mess

It's easier then your imaginationmakes it out to be as suggested ask her out she'll either say yes , good times or now , bad times.

In the end at least you'll know where you stand.

Knockoff Nige

Find out if she's single, find a time when you are alone with her (dont force this lol) ask her questions about herself. At a time when you are both getting on grand, tell her that you think she's lovely and ask her out.

axer

Knockoff Nige wrote:

Find out if she's single, find a time when you are alone with her (dont force this lol) ask her questions about herself. At a time when you are both getting on grand, tell her that you think she's lovely and ask her out.

Yes, whatever you do don't become friends. It is very easy to fall into that category if you don't make some kinda move - by move I don't mean jump on her but make sure you do what Knockoff Nige said and ask her out.

Colonel_McCoy

Dogg she could be just as nervous as you. You having nothing to lose, speak to her be honest and if she does not like you her loss. BOOM

ShawnRaven

DerekSmalls wrote:

19 year old who doesn't have much experience with girls meets girl, thinks she's great, doesn't know what to do!! Any help/advice?

Heh we've all been there dude.

First things first, expect nothing. If all goes well you'll be pleasantly surprised and if it doesn't, then you've prepared yourself for the fall.

Secondly, just be yourself. If she's still around then you obviously haven't caused her to run ten miles! So don't go all ga ga or bashful on her. Be yourself as if you were were around anyone else really, unless you're on the obnoxious or arrogant side, in which case tone it down a bit.

And as already suggested, if you have her number. Give her a call, ask her if she wants to go to the cinema or a drink. Dinner might be a bit too formal if you don't know her that well.

Good luck with it.
VR!

Overheal

be flirtatious and expect nothing. dont fall over the first time you trip either.

Honesty is key: don't recite a bunch of corny lines you've used before or prepared beforehand - if you think she's beautiful, say so; etc.