i want to see a medium

ag1975

hi all,

my dad died almost a year ago and i feel that he had something to say to me before he went, it was very sudden in the end even though he was sick. i'm not sure if he would be au fait with the whole medium thing but he was quite spirtitual and a very emotional person who had some paranormal experience himself. i'd like to contact a medium to see see if i can contact him. any suggestions for someone in the north tipp/laois/offaly area. also do any posters have an opinion on this, ie would it be a good idea, or if i did contact him would i not always want to be going back for more??? pm if ye want.

6th

You asked for opinions so I will give mine.

Ask yourself "Do I need this?"

If you try this an dont get what you want you will either keep trying or it could make you bitter. If you do get what you want you will go back for more and more.

Its addictive and can take over your life. If there's something you need your father to hear then take some quiet time somewhere and just talk out loud to him. Might sound weird but I guarantee you will feel much better.

tallus

Good advice 6th.

goldigga20

d only ting is dat he hasnt passd dat long ago so sumtimes dey wont cum thru coz ur not redy my bf's grandad died dey wer v close n he went 2 c medium n gandad wudn cum thru.he was told he wasnt redy n dat hes stil too upset. maria graham is amazing. big waiting list not sur bout contact details tho

kshiel

Hi ag1975, sorry for your loss. I agree with 6th on the questions you need to ask yourself and feel talking aloud to your father can or could be of some comfort to you and if your not comfortable with that you could try and write down what you are feeling and questions you feel is unanswered. Its only been a year and you may still and probaly are still going through the greiving process, give your self the space and time you may need to make this decision.

Oryx

Contact like this can hurt, if it makes you miss your Dad more, or if he doesnt come through like you thought he would. Sometimes the messages we get are not the messages we were hoping for. Be ready for that.

But such contact can help in a lot of cases, by giving closure, and a last chance to say goodbye properly. I know for many people its very reassuring to know their loved ones have passed on to something else and are not simply 'gone'. Its up to you if you feel able to leave it at one contact, and not cling to every chance to hear more, which as 6th says, is a need that can take you over.

Try to get a medium who is recommended by word of mouth. Its very easy to happen on a bad one, who may make you feel worse

@golddigga. Please, the tx spk is making my head hurt.;) I agree with your point that it is early, sometimes the person we want to contact wont come through because distance is needed at first to allow those of us left here to grieve, and not try and keep the person we love here in some way.

Poltergoose

I'd do exactly what the guy 6th suggests.Not all mediums i'd imagine are genuine so it could be risky going to someone who may be just preying on vulnerability.

Poltergoose

Wow! when I read that text speak reply I felt like I was frankensteins monster trying to read ann and barry.Thing I may have brained my damage