What will i do?

johnrd

Hi all, this is my first post. A couple of months ago i met this girl from the USA on the internet who in turn introduced to her friend. Me and her friend really hit it off, txting and calling eachother almost daily, i guess we were having a long term relationship, i was even planning to visit in the near future, she even told her family all about me etc.

Then a couple of days ago i found out that she had started dating someone over there, she didn't tell me herself, her friend told me, i havent spoke to her for a few days now, i dont know what to do? i really like this girl and i would like to have a proper relationship with her.

Her friend told me to hang on in there that she will come back to me? i dont know? any advice appreciated

MagicMarker

just save yourself a lot of heart ache and forget all about her. Turn off your pc and go find yourself a real live girl.

~Leanne~

I would move on if i was you. You havent even met this girl...you both live very differnent lives in different countries. Had she said in any way she was interested in a relationship or that you both were having a "long distance relationship"??
Stay in contact and move on.

the_syco

Untill you find out from Friend B, don't do anything rash, as such, but, erm, did Friend B see what you were doing as "long distance relationship", or some fun with a guy she'll never see.

If the latter, go find a real girl, and now that you're used to talking to women, you'll have a good chance of scoring.

Oh, and today is Saturday. Best of luck, and all at the local nightclub:cool:

Ruu_Old

I would leave it also and find someone closer to home. The waiting around for her could be, and probably is going to be a waste of time so it is pointless going down that avenue. Keep busy and forget about her.

johnrd

Well shes moving across America in a month or so, so i doubt shes gonna keep seeing this guy. I think she must be fairly serious if she told her family about me?

MagicMarker

What exactly did she tell them?

Seriously man, move on. If you think she's that serious then why is she dating someone else?

biko

She might be into you but in America you can date several ppl at the same time. She could be going to the cinema etc but not do anything serious with him.
I think you should look into going over and let her know you're coming. If you never met it's not really "exclusive" is it?

johnrd

biko wrote:

She might be into you but in America you can date several ppl at the same time. She could be going to the cinema etc but not do anything serious with him.
I think you should look into going over and let her know you're coming. If you never met it's not really "exclusive" is it?

cheers mate, you gave me a bit of hope!

mawk

hey if its any help to you i just came back from amerikay from seeing a similar situation-girl.

i met her in real life as opposed to over the net but same deal. we kept talking when i came home and somewhere in the meantime she found a boyfriend close to home. i wasnt too happy but fnuk it, shes like 8 timezones away so im not going to tell her not to.

but still i jumped on a plane and flew over to see her. and it was great. we got on like a house on fire, and life was good.

except for the guilt of her boyfriend, who became a jealous nutjob dispite being the least attentive boyfriend ever usually, cause ive been cheated on before so i know its ****.

but being the other guy... not so tough (im going to hell)

so yeah, i say give her a very long leash until you can or will do something more serious about it, but go see her if you can. if nothing ele there will always be a good travel story or two