Aftermath - how do I play this out?

LegacyUser

Ok so I met this guy when I was out. He's a friend of my brothers, who introduced us. He's not from where I'm from so the chances of seeing him again are rare unless it's arranged. We hung out most of the night, but we were both polluted. I'm not sure what to do because we were flirting alot - but we were both very drunk - and I'm interested in talking to him again (at least) but I don't know how to go about it. He's on myspace but I'm sure that if I added him he'd know I'd gone through my brothers friends till his name came up and then probably think I was a stalker. And I'd be unsure of what to say. It's unlikely that my brother will give me his number or anything and I'd rather not go ask my brother for his friends number, its not really fair.

I don't know why I have these reservations really, if it were a girl I wouldn't mind at all adding her but not when its a guy I fancy.

So is there some sort of procedure for this? Is there something that people generally do when things like this happen? Someone please give me advice!

AnonoBoy

There's an obvious link between you - he's a friend of your brothers. Therefore I don't think he'd consider it 'stalkerish' if you added him on Myspace at all. I've had people add me on Myspace after meeting them at parties - and the connection was through friends of friends of friends. It's no big deal.

Then just send him a nice 'non stalkerish' mail saying how much fun you had with him etc etc and then let nature take its course.

Star Lord

Seconded! If he's interested too I'm sure he'll offer his number or ask for yours, or indeed ask you to meet up again!