lack of sex drive

LegacyUser

hey

hoping someone can offer advice


well backround got pregnant accidently 3 yrs ago . everything fine since but have recently gotten back into the dating game and into a serious relationship. love him very much but having trouble in the bedroom. basically im frickin obsessed with the chance ill have another unplanned pregnancy. have tried going on pill but was experiencing a lot of side effects so came off it recently so have been using condoms since but every month i wear myself out buying pregnancy tests and absolutely freakin out even though we have practised very safe sex but problem not helped by fact i have irregular periods. its gotten so bad that this month for peace of mind ive avoided sex and just decided to arouse him in other ways and while satisfying he doesnt find it enough

while i enjoy sex and everything i just want peace of mind. have been looking into other forms of contraception but there seems to b 2 many side effects and to b honest i didnt even feel comfortable while using pill and condoms !

he has been very understanding so far but its beginning to take its toll. i feel immature and foolish but so paraniod ! what can i do

Victor

I think your situation is a little understandable, given you previous pregnancy. Perhaps talk to your GP or a familiy planning clinic about additional / other forms of contraception.

c-dog

agree wit victor ul have to get some advice from GP or someone in the know!