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Yet another Ex problem

  • 15-08-2007 12:26pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys!..Ok so here it is, my ex of 2and a half years broke up just over a year ago, up until awhile ago we have been the best of friends, hanging out, and texting everyday and stuff, I should probably also mention here that we work part time together!..This guy was the love of my life and still is and yes, stupidly when we broke up we stayed friends cos we had both spoken about getting back together, and we both have mutual friends. But, lately things have turned a bit sour, thats mainly due to me, as I am mad at him for using me, I know, I know I shouldn;t have let him but he seems to pick me up and play with me whenever he wants and then just puts me back in my bos again when he's finished, and yet when we're working togehter he's all nice and flirty with me and it's great, it's like old times, but my dilema is this, do I just cut him out of my life and move on?..Dont get me wrong, I don't want it to seem like I am painting him as a bad person, he isn't, but anytime I try amd move anway from being his friend it doesn't work, we allways seem to end up back being friends, it's like I'm stuck on a roundabout that I cant get off..I'm sorry for moaning and it being soo long, would I would really appreciate your advise as it's really getting me down.


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    It is not possible to get over someone if you are seeing them every day, hence here you are after a year with this crap still going on in your head.
    If you had stopped seeing him when ye broke up, you'd most likely be over him by now and well moved on with your life.
    You know yourself what has to be done, you've allowed this to go on for far too long. Cut him out of your life and get on with your furture.


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