Going out with an ex's friend?

LegacyUser

Ok went out with a girl for 3 years. was pretty messed up and about a week after i found out that she was scheating on me with someone else i packed my bags and went travelling for a year.

Back about 4 months or so and bumped into a friend of my ex there 2 weekends ago and had the usual how are you chat, i nver noticed before how good looking and funny she is. Anyway she was beboing me there for the last couple of weeks and hinting that she was going to X pub on sunday night. Anyway I was in town and decided ont he spur of the moment that i'd go along, just to see what happened or what might happe.

Anyway to cut a logn story short she said she always thought i was cute but would never have went near me while i was with the ex, which is good.
But now i am single she was firing on all cylinders to kiss me.
So we chewed the face off each other for the night.

We were txtin yesterday and now shes a bit worried about what my ex might say, my view is my ex was off F**king someone else on me and shes has not right to say anythign where as the new girl things she should be loyal, help me talk some sense into her!

cold_filter

I dont see a problemw ith this for you as your ex cheated on you. But its obviously a different kettle of fish for your new woman. But tbh if she lieks you give it a bash

matt-dublin

say to the new girl, that your ex has no rights to be pissed off with her as she cheated on you in the first place, and it would be kind of hypocritical

tritium

Let me see. Your ex cheated on you, you did nothing wrong, and you need to ask if you should care about what your ex thinks on this one:)

No!

I'm with the previous poster. Have a chat with the new girl about your ex. You don't have to (and probably shouldn't) do a character assassination on her, but explain that things are well and truely done there.

Besides you've been away for a year. How long do you think you should be banned from talking to friends of an ex girlfriend?

Good luck;)