need advice

LegacyUser

Can anyone give advice to someone who see himself slipping behind in relationships girl just want to be friends

LegacyUser

Probably. I think a bit more to go on than this might help. From the above I have no idea whether you your girlfriend (I'm assuming you're a guy and you're with a girl, yes?) has actually already said she wants to just be friends (in which case that would generally be said to be more than "slipping behind") or what the story is at all.

LegacyUser

Hello
Thanks for your offer of help. I do not have a gf as i said when i do like someone it is usually she does not fancy me. People I don't fancy sometime ask me out but no point being with someone you are not into. Had lots od stress and depressin in life just want someone to share things with but must be someone I fancy. last gf, when we finished she turned really bitter to me. Couldn't believe we had made love been so close and now she will not even talk to me. see people together, they break up and get to be with someone else. have affairs or what ever all i get is friendship

flonge

hey
just a quick question notregd,
what age are you??
I find the same problem,it's quite disheartening....

Wibbs

notregd wrote:

Hello
Thanks for your offer of help. I do not have a gf as i said when i do like someone it is usually she does not fancy me.

It happens. Move on to another who might.

Had lots od stress and depressin in life just want someone to share things with but must be someone I fancy.

Yeah and the last thing you want to be bringing up in the early stages is that stuff. Turns people right off. Plenty of time for that later.

last gf, when we finished she turned really bitter to me.

Ask yourself, I mean really ask yourself why? Was she the only one? If so she might have been a looper. Common enough. If she wasn't the only one, then again ask why.

see people together, they break up and get to be with someone else. have affairs or what ever all i get is friendship

I suppose the pat answer is you're doing something different to the successful ones. Find out what that is and try to change it. Sounds simple but it's anything but. The only sure thing is continuing as you are is/will get you nowhere.

This is the recent thread you want; http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055126651

LegacyUser

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showt...p?t=2055126651
Thanks for that Wibbs, should have looked before posting

LegacyUser

'What age are you people who have responded to this. It seems this is a twenty somethings board is it. No problem with that just I am older and wonder if anyone 1 40's are her with this issue'