sex preference problem

LegacyUser

hi this is a real problem that has been around for good few years. First of all i would like to thank all people who can help me with this. Anyway while growing up i like many teenagers looked up alot of porn on the internet, possibly a bit too much but that was just down to a high sex drive i guess, as years progressed i grew bored of the usual porn and so i began wandering into shemale sex. Now i know this really wasnt an over night thing but i dont know maybe im just a freak . So since then i have been lookin up shemale sex pics and movies and i find i have never been lookin up regular girl stuff. Now most people would agree that if you are a homosexual you are born one and not just turned into one, i really do detest male nudity but i havent a clue whats goin on maybe ive just moved onto harder stuff i dont know. Also i have had passed experiences with women that have never been a problem sex wise but that has been a while now, so mayeb if i can just get another insight into whats goin on in my head and what i can do to stop this strange fetish. Thanks for your time and sorry if the post doesnt make much sense.

LegacyUser

so can anyone help?

LegacyUser

Hi,

You ask if what you are looking at makes you gay,I think not.

I would say you have to lay off the porn and go out and meet people.

You are doing no harm looking at it but it is making you feel bad about yourself which is not good.

Give yourself a break what you enjoy looking at does not define who you are.

Im a straight female and i enjoy watching girl on girl movies because they aren't as fake looking as the hetro one's.

Sound's like a case of catholic guilt to me.

pwd

Get rid of your internet connection so you stop messing your head up out of boredom

spinandscribble

maybe its like you like a dominate female? i dont think your a freak. a little fetish never hurt anyone

Owen

PWD you're not helping. OP, what you choose to look at is your preference. Why should someone else's preferences be forced on you? People also go through phases. Perhaps this is one? For months all I wanted was to date an Asian girl. Then I did it. And now I'm not remotely attracted to any Asian girls ... it's weird like that, eh?

If it's not a phase, then chill. It's your body, your mind. Do what makes YOU happy, not what you think you should do to conform.

pwd

ned78 wrote:

PWD you're not helping. OP, what you choose to look at is your preference. Why should someone else's preferences be forced on you? People also go through phases. Perhaps this is one? For months all I wanted was to date an Asian girl. Then I did it. And now I'm not remotely attracted to any Asian girls ... it's weird like that, eh?

If it's not a phase, then chill. It's your body, your mind. Do what makes YOU happy, not what you think you should do to conform.

I gave valid advice if you're unable to understand it then keep it to yourself.

Nevyn

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Reku

I think the better question to determine your sexuallity is in day to day life are you attracted to men or women? If women do you tend to imagine any of the women having guy's bits under their clothes? Do you regularly imagine having sex/foreplay with a guy?
It is quite possible that your browsing has just driven you to seek greater extremities in kink (you do say you grew bored and progressed to this), kind of like how an adrenaline junky has to keep finding more dangerous things to do in order to get the surge.

vorbis

i'd be fairly open in terms of not being phased by people being gay, bi, straight or whatever. Shemales though?! I'd have to say a friend telling me he was into that stuff would make me view him as a freak. Thats just my opinion. It does sound like you've looking at it out of boredom. Still do NOT mention something like that to a group of friends, its liable to turn out badly.

LegacyUser

well thanks for your opinions, im gettting that the general view from people is that i should distance myself from this thing and get out more, which is strange cause im not the type of guy that doesnt get out much and has no social life with girls infact quite the opposite. Plus the post about how i feel day to day about women helped greatly, i consider myself straight under those terms. O and im not stupid enough to go telling friends also, i gotta mention though that i am in the beginnings of a relationship with a girl and i gues i just wanna know whats gonna happen sexually in the future. Thanks for the posts and please keep them coming